Resources to help manage existential dread

Queer joy is essential to surviving the next 4- 40 years. Why and how to harness your joy.

The one thing I know for sure, after years of teaching and lobbying legislatures, is that facts don’t move opinions. Stories do. It is...

Navtivity of dicks thanks to a grab bag of tiny dicks from http://www.funkittoys.com Dear Readers: Welcome to the holiday madness! I am...

Practical guide to surviving 2025 and beyone

I’m voting pro ho this election. For months, weird Donny has been calling Kamala Harris a “ho.” He has made claims that she will be “the...

I was appointed to political office while active on a porn site. Here are my thoughts on the Mark Robinson scandal. I moved to California...

Helpful tool for identifying the symptoms you have and what symptoms you are comfortable with in an intimate partner

Can people lliving with mental illness fully consent to BDSM play?

Take a short quiz and test your knowledge of Risk Aware Kink!

Are You Polyamorous or is it Just Peer Pressure?

Are you an empath or is it just unaddressed trauma?

There is no safe or "safer" way to erotically choke someone. Louder for those of you with earbuds in: THERE IS NO SAFE OR "SAFER" WAY TO...

Masturbation is inherently anti-capitalist. I've been playing with that concept for the last month and have come to really believe that...

Guest Post by Peter Minkoff Photo Credit: https://www.pexels.com/photo/amsterdam-canal-lights-red-light-district-9320/ We live in a world...

The most common advice a sex ed writer (including myself) gives for any question is to communicate. Communication about needs, desires,...

The world has been sending me messages that y'all are curious about sex and menopause and peri-menopause. I've received multiple emails...

If you are a frequent reader of sex advice columns, you will quickly come to notice the number of letters which begin “I am so...

We are at the start of a new calendar year. This means folks out here with lots of resolutions to do new things, restart practices they...

Dear Readers: Thank you for staying with me for the year! Whether you recently found me or you are a long-term reader, I appreciate you...