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Do we have too much consent? Consent prior to play is a fundamental tenant for BDSM play. People talk about what they want, don’t want, and things to be aware of prior to play. Ideally, it is done with an unimpaired mind and good intent. This is to increase the level of safety for what is by all definitions, somewhat unsafe activity. When I started playing over three decades ago, consent was basically:                  A: I like to get hit.                 B: I like to hit pe

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Consensual Nonconsent (CNC) – often dubbed “rape play” – is growing in popularity. A look at search trends on Google shows that the search for “what is CNC” and “CNC kink” skyrocketed by more than 600 percent in the last two months of 2025. Posts on Fetlife about CNC abound after years of having this kink banned or severely limited on the site. So what is CNC? Why is it so popular right now? And is it just a way for abusers to reframe their behavior? What is CNC? Consensual N

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