I always have to laugh a little when vanilla folks ask me what I did with friends over a weekend. Whenever I say something like “Dinner and cocktails,” or “Played cards and had a few beers,” they always are shocked and reply, “But… that is so normal of you.”
Yes, yes it is. I don’t always wear an underbust corset and thong while getting beat. Sometimes I just grab a dark beer and watch the unicorn sing to his dog.
I think most people think kinksters are much more interesting that we really are. LOL