D/s Books and Blogs

I’ve been asked by several folx to provide a set of good readings on D/s dynamics. While this is far from a complete list, here is a good place to start. I will continue to update over time.


Blanton, Rebecca. (2018) The Big Workbook for Submissives. Auntie Vice Productions: Grass Valley, CA.

Blanton, Rebecca. (2011). Love Letters to a Unicorn: A book about BDSM, kink, and non-monogamy. Auntie Vice Productions: Grass Valley, CA.

Brame, William, Gloria Brame, and John Williams. (2011). Different Loving: A Complete Exploration of the World of Sexual Dominance and Submission. Random House: New York.

Califia, Pat and Robin Davies. (2012). Public Sex.

Eason, Dossie and Janet Hardy. (2011). The New Bottoming Book.

Eason, Dossie and Janet Hardy. (2011). The New Topping Book.

Harrington, Jay. (2013). Playing Well With Others. Greenery Press.

Kali, Princess. (2020). 365 Days of Kink.

Thompson, Mark, Dorothy Allison, Guy Baldwin, etc. (2013). Leatherfolk: Radical sex, people, politics, and practice. Deadalus Press: New York.

Weissman, Jay. (2011). SM 101: A Realistic Introduction. Greenery Press.


Erotic Awakening

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Kink Doctor

Spices of Lust

Submissive Feminist: Personal blog

Submissive Guide All things submissive. Well informed and sourced.

Sugarbutch D/s, queer, gender nonconforming

Wicked Grounds Blogs, classes and more!

One comment

  1. There are a lot of blogs out there on WordPress that chronicle the personal experiences of D/s relationships. I didn’t recognize the ones on your list, will go have a look thought. Thanks for sharing!


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