I’ve been asked by several folx to provide a set of good readings on D/s dynamics. While this is far from a complete list, here is a good place to start. I will continue to update over time.
Education and Kink Organization Sites
BDSM Education Center www.BDSMEducationCenter.com
Black Rose www.BR.org
Center for Sex Positive Culture www.thecspc.org
Community Academic Consortium for Research on Alternative Sexualitites www.carasresearch.org
Fetish.com has a list of BDSM groups across the US
Folsom Street Events www.folsomstreetevents.org
International Mr. Leather www.imrl.com
International Ms. Leather and Boot Black www.imslbb.org
Kink Academy www.KinkAcademy.com
Kinsey Institute www.kinseyinstitute.org
Leather and LGBTQ Cultural District, SF https://sfleatherdistrict.org/
Leather Archives and Museum www.leatherarchives.org
Lesbian Herstory Archives www.lesbianherstoryarchives.org
Lesbian Sex Mafia www.lesbainsexmafia.org
Museum of Sex www.museumofsex.com
National Coalition for Sexual Freedom www.NCSFreedom.org
National Leather Association International www.NLA-international.com
Lavender Library and Cultural Exchange www.llace.org
Society of Janus www.soj.org
The Exiles (lesbain org) www.theexiles.org
Blanton, Rebecca. Love Letters to a Unicorn: A book about kink, BDSM, and non-monogamy.(2nd edition)
Blanton, Rebecca. The Big Workbook for Submissives.
Brame, William, Gloria Brame, and John Williams. (2011). Different Loving: A Complete Exploration of the World of Sexual Dominance and Submission. Random House: New York.
Califia, Pat and Robin Davies. (2012). Public Sex.
Cruz, Ariane. The Color of Kink.
Easton, Dossie. The Topping Book
Easton, Dossie and Janet Hardy. The Ethical Slut
Easton, Dossie and Janet Hardy. The Bottoming Book
Harrington, Lee. Playing Well with Others.
Kali, Princess. 365 Days of Kink.
Midori. Wild Side Sex: The Book of Kink
Thompson, Mark, Dorothy Allison, Guy Baldwin, etc. (2013). Leatherfolk: Radical sex, people, politics, and practice. Deadalus Press: New York.
Wiessman, Jay.. SM 101
iHarrington, Jay and Rigger Jay. Shibari You Can Use.
Midori and Craig Morey. The Seductive Art of Japanese Bondage.
Two Knotty Boys and Larry Utley. Two Knotty Boys Showing You the Ropes.
Vane, Evie. Better Bondage for Every Body.
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