Kink | Love Letters To A Unicorn

Love letters to a unicorn is a blog about submission, kink, power exchange, and sex from the perspective of a bottom. It provides sex toy reviews and a vetted list of resources as well.

Rebecca Blanton

Dec 35 min read

Your Story is a Revolution

The one thing I know for sure, after years of teaching and lobbying legislatures, is that facts don’t move opinions. Stories do. It is...

Rebecca Blanton

Nov 305 min read

December Note from Auntie Vice

Navtivity of dicks thanks to a grab bag of tiny dicks from http://www.funkittoys.com Dear Readers: Welcome to the holiday madness! I am...

Rebecca Blanton

Nov 67 min read

A Community Survivial Guide

Practical guide to surviving 2025 and beyone

Rebecca Blanton

Oct 283 min read

I'm Voting "Pro Ho"

I’m voting pro ho this election. For months, weird Donny has been calling Kamala Harris a “ho.” He has made claims that she will be “the...

Rebecca Blanton

Oct 98 min read

Mark Robinson, Sex Sites, and Politics

I was appointed to political office while active on a porn site. Here are my thoughts on the Mark Robinson scandal. I moved to California...

Yes/No/Maybe List for Mental Health Symtpoms

Rebecca Blanton

Sep 34 min read

Yes/No/Maybe List for Mental Health Symtpoms

Helpful tool for identifying the symptoms you have and what symptoms you are comfortable with in an intimate partner

Rebecca Blanton

Aug 236 min read

Can People with Mental Illness Consent?

Can people lliving with mental illness fully consent to BDSM play?

Rebecca Blanton

Jul 165 min read

Risk-Aware Kink Quiz

Take a short quiz and test your knowledge of Risk Aware Kink!

Rebecca Blanton

May 94 min read

Are You Polyamorous?

Rated 5 out of 5 stars.(2)

Are You Polyamorous or is it Just Peer Pressure?

Empath? Maybe. Trauma-Survivor? Probably.

Rebecca Blanton

Apr 284 min read

Empath? Maybe. Trauma-Survivor? Probably.

Are you an empath or is it just unaddressed trauma?

Rebecca Blanton

Apr 124 min read

Erotic Choking 101

There is no safe or "safer" way to erotically choke someone. Louder for those of you with earbuds in: THERE IS NO SAFE OR "SAFER" WAY TO...

Rebecca Blanton

Mar 285 min read

Fight Capitalism One Wank at a Time!

Masturbation is inherently anti-capitalist. I've been playing with that concept for the last month and have come to really believe that...

Challenging Prejudice: Let's Talk About Sex Workers Rights

Rebecca Blanton

Mar 223 min read

Challenging Prejudice: Let's Talk About Sex Workers Rights

Guest Post by Peter Minkoff Photo Credit: https://www.pexels.com/photo/amsterdam-canal-lights-red-light-district-9320/ We live in a world...

Communicating About Sex is Hard! Make It Easier with These Tips

Rebecca Blanton

Feb 293 min read

Communicating About Sex is Hard! Make It Easier with These Tips

The most common advice a sex ed writer (including myself) gives for any question is to communicate. Communication about needs, desires,...

Rebecca Blanton

Feb 87 min read

Sex & Menopause

The world has been sending me messages that y'all are curious about sex and menopause and peri-menopause. I've received multiple emails...

I Can’t Ask For That! What to do when you are embarrassed about what you want in bed

Rebecca Blanton

Jan 223 min read

I Can’t Ask For That! What to do when you are embarrassed about what you want in bed

If you are a frequent reader of sex advice columns, you will quickly come to notice the number of letters which begin “I am so...

Rebecca Blanton

Jan 75 min read

The Gift of "No."

We are at the start of a new calendar year. This means folks out here with lots of resolutions to do new things, restart practices they...

Closing out 2023/Looking forward to 2024

Rebecca Blanton

Dec 20, 20232 min read

Closing out 2023/Looking forward to 2024

Dear Readers: Thank you for staying with me for the year! Whether you recently found me or you are a long-term reader, I appreciate you...

Rebecca Blanton

Nov 25, 20232 min read

2023 Annual Gift Guide

Looking for great gift ideas for everyone you like? I have some great small businesses and individuals offering amazing products,...

Finding Out What You Really Want from Intimacy

Rebecca Blanton

Nov 9, 20234 min read

Finding Out What You Really Want from Intimacy

Sex education is all sorts for messed up! The best we offer kids is showing them how to put a condom on a banana. To quote Dr. Sprankle:...

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