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Love letters to a unicorn is a blog about submission, kink, power exchange, and sex from the perspective of a bottom. It provides sex toy reviews and a vetted list of resources as well.
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Rebecca Blanton
Sep 34 min read
Yes/No/Maybe List for Mental Health Symtpoms
Helpful tool for identifying the symptoms you have and what symptoms you are comfortable with in an intimate partner
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Rebecca Blanton
Apr 284 min read
Empath? Maybe. Trauma-Survivor? Probably.
Are you an empath or is it just unaddressed trauma?
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Rebecca Blanton
Sep 7, 20225 min read
Undoing Religious Damage with BDSM
How to start addressing trauma and damage from a sex-negative upbringing.
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Rebecca Blanton
Feb 9, 20226 min read
EARN IT Act: Using the pretense of child sexual exploitation to invade privacy
Ah, politicians are once again engaging in a favorite past-time: fanning fears of massive child predator rings as a pretense to get rid...
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Rebecca Blanton
Jun 27, 20185 min read
Sexual Healing (part 1)
The theme of healing through kink has come up repeatedly in both my reading and real life a lot lately. For me, this is a touchy subject....
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Rebecca Blanton
Dec 6, 20165 min read
Good Kinky Fun vs. Abuse
If I am really honest about some kink behavior, it looks like abuse out of context. I have seen more than one play scene where the bottom...
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Rebecca Blanton
Sep 7, 20165 min read
Triggers
Talking about “triggers” and starting posts and group discussions with “trigger warnings” is now de riguer in the kink community. It has...
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Rebecca Blanton
Aug 6, 20159 min read
Discipline, Punishment and Abuse
I went to a meeting of submissives this week and an interesting discussion question was posed: What is the difference between discipline,...
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