If you have been listening to Fat Chicks on Top , you know I’ve been talking to a variety of kinky folks who entered the scene over 20...

If you have spent any time on kink blogs, podcasts, or in a class, you have heard people mention “head space.” Head space refers to the...

One of the core principles of BDSM play is that players, all players, have a right to protect their body and mind. We stress consent,...

I was working on my next blog post about measures around sex and research findings and planned on posting it today, then the American...

My last post about sub space got a flood of responses. Most of the 3,000+ people who replied here and on Fetlife were very complimentary....