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What you don't know about managing mental illness with natural methods.

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There is no safe or "safer" way to erotically choke someone. Louder for those of you with earbuds in: THERE IS NO SAFE OR "SAFER" WAY TO...

The most common advice a sex ed writer (including myself) gives for any question is to communicate. Communication about needs, desires,...

If you are a frequent reader of sex advice columns, you will quickly come to notice the number of letters which begin “I am so...

We are at the start of a new calendar year. This means folks out here with lots of resolutions to do new things, restart practices they...

I've seen an increasing number of studies demonstrating that female (researchers only asked cis women) desire declines in long term...

There are as many reasons people enjoy submission as there are folks who submit in sex or relationships. Our desires for power exchange...

The physical activities of kink - spanking, tying up people, blindfolds- are what most folks think this lifestyle is all about. Putting...

Anxiety is a common mental health issue. Protocols in a relationship can help reduce and manage it.

So often newer kinky folks hold up the 24/7 dynamic as the "pinnacle" of kinky relationships. The fantasy of this dynamic is that it...

As we close one calendar year and move into the next, many of us take time to evaluate and make goals or wishes for the coming year. If...

Most of BDSM and kink skills focus on techniques for different types of play (e.g., flogging, spanking). However, the world of BDSM is...

How to start addressing trauma and damage from a sex-negative upbringing.

If you have been listening to Fat Chicks on Top , you know I’ve been talking to a variety of kinky folks who entered the scene over 20...

Kink play can be intense! That is part of the fun of it. We play physically and psychologically hard. Weather you are into impact play,...

Sponsored Post We don’t tend to talk about sexual fantasies with many people. Too many of us carry shame around the things we know turn...