Happy Holidays! Here is a little kinky holiday porn for y’all. CW: Impact play, body fluids Elise sat by the fire on the early morning of...

I am so excited to announce I will be working with Wicked Grounds to host “30 Days of Kinky Self-Discovery” in January 2021. So many...

The saying is giving is better than recieving, but I think that depends on what side of the slash you are working from! Looking for...

With the 2020 election just days from now, I have spent an enormous amount of time thinking about power: structural power, institutional...

Many of us identify as “service submissives.” We enjoy serving others (at least we enjoy serving a D-type). Some of us (including me)...

A formatted and printable version of this post is located here: 30 days of kinky self-discoveryDownload I’ll be honest. I have been...

So, you want to try fisting. Or you heard about it. Or you tried it and it didn’t quite work. Well, let me welcome you to the wonderful...

I’ve been asked by several folx to provide a set of good readings on D/s dynamics. While this is far from a complete list, here is a good...

A vast percentage of posts about submission and control (including mine) are about the relationship between a submissive and their...

With shelter in place orders dragging on more folks are trying sexting and sexy video chatting as an alternative to in-person hook-ups....

Hot take: A majority of folks you date will have dissimilar sexual needs and tastes than you do. Most couples I have met over my 40+...

Howdy readers! I taught my “Deepening Your Submission” workshop last night through Wicked Grounds Annex. Participants asked that I put...

Social distancing has definitely put a cramp in many sex lives. Online dating profiles are now including things like, “I have toilet...

Most people think BDSM is just about the sex. It is often reduced to sexual and sexualized acts, especially in mainstream media...

Pervertables – items intended for non-kinky purposes used for kink play – are some of my favorite toys! I love incorporating everyday...

One of my favorite old BritComs is Coupling (sort of the British Friends). In one of the episodes the highly sexed Patrick announces that...

Valentine’s Day in America is basically the National Day for Weird Sex. After the age of 18 most of us feel the social pressure to do...

We all have our limits, be they soft or hard. Not everyone likes spanking. Not everyone enjoys rope. We are all loosely bound by our...

I am an accidental sex/kink blogger. This site started five years ago as a book promotion site for a book I really didn’t think too many...

Guest Post by Jett Oxy Perhaps you have always fantasized about binding balls, but not quite sure about your ability to pull it off?...