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Love letters to a unicorn is a blog about submission, kink, power exchange, and sex from the perspective of a bottom. It provides sex toy reviews and a vetted list of resources as well.
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Rebecca Blanton
Sep 28, 20175 min read
Hef, Playboy, & American Sex
With the passing of Hugh Hefner today, lots of sex writers and educators are reflecting on his influence on their lives and work. It is...
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Rebecca Blanton
Sep 25, 20177 min read
Non-binary: Real or Rebellion?
Hello Readers! Sorry I have been away for so long. I had a severe infection and no help from doctors. But, despite the deplorable state...
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Rebecca Blanton
Jun 16, 20177 min read
On Being “Beautiful Ugly”
Guest Author: Joie de Vivre Joie de Vivre is a the co-producer of Peepshow in San Francisco and a burlesque performer. She regularly...
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Rebecca Blanton
May 31, 20172 min read
Talking to Fat Girls About Your Body
I am a fat girl. I have been for a long time. I don’t mince words or try and elide the fact that I am fat. I am okay with it. Most people...
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Rebecca Blanton
May 26, 20174 min read
Should Kink Assimilate?
Kink, in many forms, is now more popular and more visible than ever. I knew we had gone mainstream when American Dad, Family Guy and...
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Rebecca Blanton
May 8, 20173 min read
Agender – What does that mean?
I find being agender weird. Most days, really about 98 percent of the time, I could care less about my gender. I am a feminist for...
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Rebecca Blanton
Jan 4, 20173 min read
You Want Hair Where!?!
Okay ladies, let’s talk about hair. You know, the hair down there. When I went back out on the dating scene about five years ago I...
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Rebecca Blanton
Sep 30, 20165 min read
Why We Should Care About Sex Tapes
This morning Trump released a barrage of tweets speculating that former beauty queen Machado had made a sex tape. Of course, as with most...
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Rebecca Blanton
Sep 18, 20163 min read
The Necessity of Loving Your Body
I had the great honor this weekend to chair a panel at CatalystCon in Los Angeles. I presented a panel with Joie de Vivre and Diana Hong...
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Rebecca Blanton
Apr 30, 20163 min read
Sex Facts: Measuring Up
People have a ton of questions about how they match up against others in bed. Most of us are confident with one skill and question our...
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Rebecca Blanton
Mar 18, 20163 min read
Parenting Beyond the Binary
Recently I have seen a lot of memes and other social media that is similar to the above posting. They all have examples of parents...
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Rebecca Blanton
Jan 10, 20163 min read
Body Confident? Hell no!
I have had a lot of conversations with people lately about body image and work. My public image and my work is largely based around sex...
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Rebecca Blanton
Sep 18, 20155 min read
Bodies in Porn
I like porn. I struggle with that fact at times. I know the industry can be very exploitative and that the body images featured in porn...
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