With the passing of Hugh Hefner today, lots of sex writers and educators are reflecting on his influence on their lives and work. It is...

Hello Readers! Sorry I have been away for so long. I had a severe infection and no help from doctors. But, despite the deplorable state...

Guest Author: Joie de Vivre Joie de Vivre is a the co-producer of Peepshow in San Francisco and a burlesque performer. She regularly...

I am a fat girl. I have been for a long time. I don’t mince words or try and elide the fact that I am fat. I am okay with it. Most people...

Kink, in many forms, is now more popular and more visible than ever. I knew we had gone mainstream when American Dad, Family Guy and...

I find being agender weird. Most days, really about 98 percent of the time, I could care less about my gender. I am a feminist for...

Okay ladies, let’s talk about hair. You know, the hair down there. When I went back out on the dating scene about five years ago I...

This morning Trump released a barrage of tweets speculating that former beauty queen Machado had made a sex tape. Of course, as with most...

I had the great honor this weekend to chair a panel at CatalystCon in Los Angeles. I presented a panel with Joie de Vivre and Diana Hong...

People have a ton of questions about how they match up against others in bed. Most of us are confident with one skill and question our...

Recently I have seen a lot of memes and other social media that is similar to the above posting. They all have examples of parents...

I have had a lot of conversations with people lately about body image and work. My public image and my work is largely based around sex...

I like porn. I struggle with that fact at times. I know the industry can be very exploitative and that the body images featured in porn...