Kink play can be intense! That is part of the fun of it. We play physically and psychologically hard. Weather you are into impact play,...

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I work with a lot of kinky folks of all identities and levels of experience. When I talk to folks from the left side of the slash, they...

There are many different types and styles of wand vibrators available. How do you know which one works for you? Your Auntie is here to...

Sponsored Post from HotCherry.com Of all sex practices, BDSM might just be the most misunderstood. Many people associate it with...

Aftercare is a frequently mentioned idea in kink/BDSM classes and touted as “important” for safe, sane, and consensual play. Most of the...

Valentine’s Day is rapidly approaching (again). Even if you are jaded toward this corporate day of forced romance and sex, you can still...

A formatted and printable version of this post is located here: 30 days of kinky self-discoveryDownload I’ll be honest. I have been...

Pervertables – items intended for non-kinky purposes used for kink play – are some of my favorite toys! I love incorporating everyday...

There are different theories on how people “should” deal with pain. Some folks argue for being present with the pain. Some argue for...

Guest Post By: Spices of Lust Your BDSM experience is personal to you — and your partners. It’s meant to be whatever you make of it, and...

One of the most fortuitous events in my life was discovering the kinky world at about the same time I started puberty. It provided me...

We talk a lot about negotiation in the kink scene. Negotiating what you will and will not do, what you want and what your partner(s) want...

It is Pride month. This year is particularly politically charged. There are fights about adding black and brown stripes to the Pride...

I was invited to roast a friend’s husband for his birthday last night. She started the show by mentioning they had just finished a 27 day...

The more I talk to people about the kink and BDSM world, the more I realize how many people do not see this world the way I do. For some...