Resources to help manage existential dread

Queer joy is essential to surviving the next 4- 40 years. Why and how to harness your joy.

Practical guide to surviving 2025 and beyone

I’m voting pro ho this election. For months, weird Donny has been calling Kamala Harris a “ho.” He has made claims that she will be “the...

The physical activities of kink - spanking, tying up people, blindfolds- are what most folks think this lifestyle is all about. Putting...

I was lucky enough to get to interview Mir Green from Wicked Grounds today and it helped me refine a few thoughts I have been playing...

Being part of the LGBTQ+ community means growning up in societies where we are not supported or embraced by the majority. If we are lucky...

Happy Pride!!! Pride is an ever-evolving event. It started as a riot against abusive policing. It has become a party, a way to take a...

Rae Luna https://www.podbean.com/media/share/pb-8aszk-1229636 Guest: Rae Luna, burlesque and go-go dancer This week we continue...

Meg Elison, Author I finally got to talk to one of my favorite authors, Meg Elison. She has written the Road to Nowhere series, Big Girl,...

I work with a lot of kinky folks of all identities and levels of experience. When I talk to folks from the left side of the slash, they...

Thought about joining Fetlife.com but have some concerns? Worried that your employer or ex-spouse will find your account and out you?...

Being single, or at least being in a position to date, during the pandemic is challenging. We all crave human touch and interaction. We...

Whether you personally are new to kink, or you are dating someone new to kink, it is an exciting time filled with fun and learning! It...

Things are beginning to open back up in the United States and elsewhere. While we are not at a point with public health to fully reopen...

I am so excited to announce I will be working with Wicked Grounds to host “30 Days of Kinky Self-Discovery” in January 2021. So many...

With the 2020 election just days from now, I have spent an enormous amount of time thinking about power: structural power, institutional...

Happy Pride Month! This year Pride has been cancelled in most locations due to COVID-19 and celebrations are looking a bit different....

We all have our limits, be they soft or hard. Not everyone likes spanking. Not everyone enjoys rope. We are all loosely bound by our...

I’m feeling old and crotchety after a month of Pride. Maybe its because I have been doing Pride for more than three decades and it is not...