Resources to help manage existential dread

The one thing I know for sure, after years of teaching and lobbying legislatures, is that facts don’t move opinions. Stories do. It is...

Practical guide to surviving 2025 and beyone

Are you an empath or is it just unaddressed trauma?

If you are a frequent reader of sex advice columns, you will quickly come to notice the number of letters which begin “I am so...

Sex education is all sorts for messed up! The best we offer kids is showing them how to put a condom on a banana. To quote Dr. Sprankle:...

I've seen an increasing number of studies demonstrating that female (researchers only asked cis women) desire declines in long term...

The physical activities of kink - spanking, tying up people, blindfolds- are what most folks think this lifestyle is all about. Putting...

So often newer kinky folks hold up the 24/7 dynamic as the "pinnacle" of kinky relationships. The fantasy of this dynamic is that it...

Sponsored by LoveHoney With the New Year just around the corner, many of us will be working on our resolutions for 2023. But in the midst...

If you have been listening to Fat Chicks on Top , you know I’ve been talking to a variety of kinky folks who entered the scene over 20...

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I am a fan of sexual and intimacy goal setting. It is a way to prioritize your pleasure and not let it languish as life happens. It also...

BDSM and power exchange is often portrayed as something which exists as something in the bedroom. Yes, a large part of people’s dynamics...

If you have spent any time on kink blogs, podcasts, or in a class, you have heard people mention “head space.” Head space refers to the...

Communication is key. You have heard it hundreds, if not thousands of time when it comes to creating successful relationships and...

Thought about joining Fetlife.com but have some concerns? Worried that your employer or ex-spouse will find your account and out you?...

Being single, or at least being in a position to date, during the pandemic is challenging. We all crave human touch and interaction. We...

Nothing puts a damper of getting down and dirty as visiting the parents for the holidays! With mom, dad, the kids, grandparents, or other...

Feeling bad about your body is common. Regardless of your actual weight, height, ability, shape, gender, or age, anyone can feel bad...