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Rebecca Blanton
Oct 28, 20243 min read
I'm Voting "Pro Ho"
I’m voting pro ho this election. For months, weird Donny has been calling Kamala Harris a “ho.” He has made claims that she will be “the...
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Rebecca Blanton
Sep 3, 20244 min read
Yes/No/Maybe List for Mental Health Symtpoms
Helpful tool for identifying the symptoms you have and what symptoms you are comfortable with in an intimate partner
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Rebecca Blanton
Aug 23, 20246 min read
Can People with Mental Illness Consent?
Can people lliving with mental illness fully consent to BDSM play?
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Rebecca Blanton
Jul 16, 20245 min read
Risk-Aware Kink Quiz
Take a short quiz and test your knowledge of Risk Aware Kink!
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Rebecca Blanton
Apr 12, 20244 min read
Erotic Choking 101
There is no safe or "safer" way to erotically choke someone. Louder for those of you with earbuds in: THERE IS NO SAFE OR "SAFER" WAY TO...
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Rebecca Blanton
Jan 7, 20245 min read
The Gift of "No."
We are at the start of a new calendar year. This means folks out here with lots of resolutions to do new things, restart practices they...
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Rebecca Blanton
Feb 7, 20234 min read
Negotiating Flexibility Into Your Dynamic
So often newer kinky folks hold up the 24/7 dynamic as the "pinnacle" of kinky relationships. The fantasy of this dynamic is that it...
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Rebecca Blanton
Nov 3, 20227 min read
Grooming as BDSM and D/s
Most of BDSM and kink skills focus on techniques for different types of play (e.g., flogging, spanking). However, the world of BDSM is...
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Rebecca Blanton
Mar 28, 20224 min read
The #1 Thing Dom(me)s Hate!
I work with a lot of kinky folks of all identities and levels of experience. When I talk to folks from the left side of the slash, they...
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Rebecca Blanton
Mar 15, 20223 min read
Should Submissives Express THEIR Needs?
When you are submissive or enjoy being submissive with a partner, navigating your own desires can be tricky. As submissives, we sometime...
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Rebecca Blanton
Feb 21, 20222 min read
One Question Every Submissive Needs to Answer
When I am on my knees, looking up at my Dom, waiting on his command, I am in complete bliss. There is something wonderful and liberating...
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Rebecca Blanton
Feb 9, 20226 min read
EARN IT Act: Using the pretense of child sexual exploitation to invade privacy
Ah, politicians are once again engaging in a favorite past-time: fanning fears of massive child predator rings as a pretense to get rid...
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Rebecca Blanton
Jan 12, 20224 min read
Dating in an On-going Pandemic
Being single, or at least being in a position to date, during the pandemic is challenging. We all crave human touch and interaction. We...
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Rebecca Blanton
Oct 23, 20215 min read
BDSM Tips for Beginners
Sponsored Post from HotCherry.com Of all sex practices, BDSM might just be the most misunderstood. Many people associate it with...
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Rebecca Blanton
Sep 20, 20213 min read
What Can You Do If You Disagree with Your Dominant?
One of the most difficult issues of being a submissive or other s-type is having a disagreement with your dominant. Power exchange...
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Rebecca Blanton
Sep 12, 20214 min read
5 Common Beliefs Which Undermine Your Sex Life
You receive messages about sex and sexuality your entire live. From the media you watch, listen to, and read, to how your parents...
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Rebecca Blanton
Aug 2, 20215 min read
7 Tips When You Are New to Kink
Whether you personally are new to kink, or you are dating someone new to kink, it is an exciting time filled with fun and learning! It...
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Rebecca Blanton
Jul 22, 20216 min read
Combining Weed and Kink? Read This!
Photo by Kindel Media on Pexels.com Weed is now legal in 18 U.S. states and the District of Columbia; two countries (Canada and Uruguay)...
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Rebecca Blanton
Jun 29, 20214 min read
7 Tips to Help You Screen For Abusers on Kink Sites
In a most predictable move, once BDSM became a topic most American’s had heard about, abusers co-opted its language to justify their...
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Rebecca Blanton
Jun 22, 20217 min read
7 Tips for Hosting an Orgy
As more of us get vaccinated and back out there, so many of y’all are posting about having a slutty summer. Yay! I strongly encourage...
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