Imani Barbarin I had a wonderful conversation with disabilities activist Imani Barbarin. You can hear our conversation here or the...

By April Sutphen Sponsored Post Some people might argue that there’s no better feeling in the world than having sex, when in actuality,...

Whether you personally are new to kink, or you are dating someone new to kink, it is an exciting time filled with fun and learning! It...

In a most predictable move, once BDSM became a topic most American’s had heard about, abusers co-opted its language to justify their...

Books This is a list of queer books that have stayed with me. I provide only the citation and genre so that you can enjoy them without...

I love it when I come across people writing about submission in a deep and thoughtful way! If you have not discovered The Pleasure Coach,...

Things are beginning to open back up in the United States and elsewhere. While we are not at a point with public health to fully reopen...

Physical accessibility is only part of the picture when it comes to making spaces and events accessible. That is often the easy part! If...

With the 2020 election just days from now, I have spent an enormous amount of time thinking about power: structural power, institutional...

I’ve been asked by several folx to provide a set of good readings on D/s dynamics. While this is far from a complete list, here is a good...

Most people think BDSM is just about the sex. It is often reduced to sexual and sexualized acts, especially in mainstream media...

I can remember the first time I read Macho Sluts by Pat Califia. While all the sex was really hot, a few of the stories stood out because...

Guest Post By: Spices of Lust Your BDSM experience is personal to you — and your partners. It’s meant to be whatever you make of it, and...

I have spent nearly 30 years working in political activism. My graduate work in political psychology focused on identity, education and...

There is a new call to add a K for “kink” to the LGBTQ+ acronym. This call for more inclusion has highlighted a couple of issues in both...

A couple of months ago I was performing with Bawdy Storytelling and had the great pleasure of hearing Race Bannon tell a story about the...

It’s great that vanilla America is finally discovering the idea of consent. Not our judges or politicians apparently, but a large number...

News headlines are floating around about 20 percent of Millennials identifying as “non-binary.” This is based on a new study by GLAAD...

I have been thinking a lot about apologies lately. Nationally, men have been issuing varying forms of apologies for sexually harassing...

This weekend, the call for women (sic, originals post was problematically gendered) to post “me too” on their Facebook page to indicate...