Helpful tool for identifying the symptoms you have and what symptoms you are comfortable with in an intimate partner

There is no safe or "safer" way to erotically choke someone. Louder for those of you with earbuds in: THERE IS NO SAFE OR "SAFER" WAY TO...

The most common advice a sex ed writer (including myself) gives for any question is to communicate. Communication about needs, desires,...

In the world of BDMS, power exchange, and kinky shenanigans, people who identify as having a 24/7 dynamic are often seen as the “ideal”...

Meg Elison, Author I finally got to talk to one of my favorite authors, Meg Elison. She has written the Road to Nowhere series, Big Girl,...

I work with a lot of kinky folks of all identities and levels of experience. When I talk to folks from the left side of the slash, they...

Communication is key. You have heard it hundreds, if not thousands of time when it comes to creating successful relationships and...

Being single, or at least being in a position to date, during the pandemic is challenging. We all crave human touch and interaction. We...

It is almost the end of 2021. I know mine has been exhausting. While the career aspect is going strong and health is slowly improving,...

Dating while kinky can be fun. It can also be immensely frustrating! Finding and connecting with a partner who matches you on desire,...

By April Sutphen Sponsored Post Some people might argue that there’s no better feeling in the world than having sex, when in actuality,...

One of the most difficult issues of being a submissive or other s-type is having a disagreement with your dominant. Power exchange...

You receive messages about sex and sexuality your entire live. From the media you watch, listen to, and read, to how your parents...

If you read much sex writing or feminist think pieces you are probably innunadate with work on the ‘orgasm gap’ and the admonition to...

If you are new-ish to kink you may be under the impression that power exchange and kink are specifically for sex and intimate play time....

Whether you personally are new to kink, or you are dating someone new to kink, it is an exciting time filled with fun and learning! It...

In a most predictable move, once BDSM became a topic most American’s had heard about, abusers co-opted its language to justify their...

Listen on Spotify Finding out your partner has cheated on you is often devastating. Regardless of your relationship style (monogamous,...

If you are into role playing, most likely you are familiar with the classics: student/teacher, parent/child, landowner/servant,...

One think a lot of people new to kink and BDSM find surprising is that even with the most experienced kinky folks, we can get a bit bored...