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Love letters to a unicorn is a blog about submission, kink, power exchange, and sex from the perspective of a bottom. It provides sex toy reviews and a vetted list of resources as well.
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Rebecca Blanton
Feb 22, 20215 min read
7 Tips to Improve Your Sexy Banter
Listen on Spotify Want to stimulate the biggest sex organ for anyone? You need to get their brain aroused! While many of us rely on...
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Rebecca Blanton
Feb 16, 20214 min read
Sex Life in a Rut? Break Out of It With These 5 Tips
Listen on Spotify One of my favorite scenes from a movie is the therapy scene in the beginning of The Ref. Judy Davis and Kevin Spacey...
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Rebecca Blanton
Nov 16, 202010 min read
Having a Hard Time Feeling Sexy? You are Not Alone!
Its been a hard year. A. Very. Hard. Year. Between COVID lockdowns and restrictions, the election, the United States beginning to recon...
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Rebecca Blanton
Oct 15, 20204 min read
Anticipatory Service
Many of us identify as “service submissives.” We enjoy serving others (at least we enjoy serving a D-type). Some of us (including me)...
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Rebecca Blanton
Mar 26, 20201 min read
Deepening Your Submission Resources
Howdy readers! I taught my “Deepening Your Submission” workshop last night through Wicked Grounds Annex. Participants asked that I put...
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Rebecca Blanton
Jan 28, 20208 min read
So You Want to Try a Threesome…
One of my favorite old BritComs is Coupling (sort of the British Friends). In one of the episodes the highly sexed Patrick announces that...
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Rebecca Blanton
Dec 9, 20194 min read
10 Things Every Bottom Should Know
Guest Post by Peter Minkoff (Homo Culture Magazine) *This article is written mostly for gay men but has great advice for anyone engaging...
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Rebecca Blanton
Dec 3, 20195 min read
What Monogamous Folks Can Learn from Non-Monogamy
Monogamy is an idealized relationship style. Its “all-or-nothing.” One slip up – one flirtation leading to a kiss, one sexual encounter,...
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Rebecca Blanton
Jun 18, 20193 min read
Why Collars Are Important to BDSM
Guest Post By: Spices of Lust Your BDSM experience is personal to you — and your partners. It’s meant to be whatever you make of it, and...
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Rebecca Blanton
Jan 11, 20194 min read
What Owning a Cat Taught Me About Kink, Polyam, and Sex
I’ll be honest, I have never been a huge cat fan. I mean, you adopt this pet who poos in your house, who is petty and controlling, and...
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Rebecca Blanton
Jan 9, 20191 min read
Bonus Clips! Alice in Bondageland and Bevin
https://www.podbean.com/media/share/pb-2jizs-a4090b Bonus Clips!! Our producer CharRon has put bonus material together from some of our...
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Rebecca Blanton
Nov 11, 20181 min read
Episode 9: 40!!!
https://www.podbean.com/media/share/pb-gpaia-9ee5de 40!!! Guests: Evie Vane (author, blogger) and Tina Hayes (Belly Dancer/Model) Auntie...
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Rebecca Blanton
Sep 27, 201810 min read
10 Things Everyone Can Learn from Kink
One of the most fortuitous events in my life was discovering the kinky world at about the same time I started puberty. It provided me...
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Rebecca Blanton
Jul 23, 20185 min read
5 Questions for a Kinky First Date
The great thing about the advent of the internet, search engines, and millions of pages with information about kink/BDSM is that it has...
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Rebecca Blanton
Jun 9, 20186 min read
5 Skills for Fighting Fair in Kinky Relationships
Healthy couples fight. Most healthy couples don’t fight often, but disagreements do arise, emotions heighten and we fight. Its actually a...
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Rebecca Blanton
May 17, 20186 min read
Top 10 Tips for Loving Someone Loving with Mental Illness
It’s National Mental Health Awareness Month so lets talk about power exchange and mental illness. Depending on the source, between 20 and...
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Rebecca Blanton
May 31, 20172 min read
Talking to Fat Girls About Your Body
I am a fat girl. I have been for a long time. I don’t mince words or try and elide the fact that I am fat. I am okay with it. Most people...
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Rebecca Blanton
Apr 2, 20175 min read
Can’t Find “The Right One?” You Might be the Problem
Again today, as with so many days, I came upon a thread of women bitching about “no good men left.” As with so many of these threads on...
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Rebecca Blanton
Jan 24, 20173 min read
The Submissive Advantage
Submissives are some of the most seductive people in the world. Regardless of what we look like, if we are introverts or extroverts, or...
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Rebecca Blanton
Jan 9, 20176 min read
10 Things You Can Do To Increase Intimacy
I love sex! I do. And I think sex is important to most healthy romantic relationships. The old adage is sex is about ten percent of any...
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