You Want Hair Where!?!
Okay ladies, let’s talk about hair. You know, the hair down there. When I went back out on the dating scene about five years ago I...
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Love letters to a unicorn is a blog about submission, kink, power exchange, and sex from the perspective of a bottom. It provides sex toy reviews and a vetted list of resources as well.
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Rebecca Blanton
Dec 20, 20163 min read
Ethical Monogamy
People who practice ethical non-monogamy talk a lot about what it means to be ethical in a non-monogamous relationship. But what about...
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Rebecca Blanton
Dec 19, 20163 min read
36 Questions You Should Ask Your Partner(s)
Immediacy is valued by many. We want what we want and we want it now! The whole concept of delayed gratification has become nearly...
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Rebecca Blanton
Nov 27, 20165 min read
It Burns When I Pee!!!
Let’s talk STIs. Sexually Transmitted Infections. I know, totally not sexy. I get it. You only want certain types of dripping going on...
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Rebecca Blanton
Jul 8, 20163 min read
“Did you say ‘no?'”
When someone says they were raped, many people ask, “So, did you say ‘no?'” It is a common question in court and in police...
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Rebecca Blanton
Jun 16, 20164 min read
Sex-First! Polyamory Culture
First, let me get a few things in the open (if you are not already familiar). One, I like sex. I like it a lot and believe it should be...
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Rebecca Blanton
May 24, 20164 min read
Relationship Red Flags
There are subtle and not so subtle signs a relationship won’t work out. The primary one I have learned to look for over the years is...
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Rebecca Blanton
Apr 3, 20165 min read
On Virtue and Vice
8? 25? 105? 300? 1,023? Is there such a thing as having too many sexual partners? Are you a sex addict? Is sex your vice? Is sex a...
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Rebecca Blanton
Mar 22, 20166 min read
Talk to Your Kids About Porn!
We need to talk to our kids about how to watch porn. I have had this conversation a lot since I put out my book last year. I think it is...
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Rebecca Blanton
Mar 4, 20167 min read
Seeking BBC…
I write a lot about interracial dating and am open that I tend to date Black men. I want to address the personal ads and online dating...
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Rebecca Blanton
Feb 22, 20165 min read
Sex Is Fundamental
American’s are weird about sex. Very weird. We use sex to sell everything in America from hamburgers to perfume to children’s toys. We...
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Rebecca Blanton
Feb 18, 20166 min read
In Sickness and In Health…
I have been away from this blog for a couple of weeks due to illness. For two and a half years I have been trying to get some chronic...
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Rebecca Blanton
Jan 26, 20165 min read
Unicorn Hunters
First, let me make clear that the way I am using “unicorn” here is as people do in the polyamory community: a bisexual woman seeking a...
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Rebecca Blanton
Dec 27, 20154 min read
You’ve Done Everything!!!
Okay, yes, I have done a lot of things. And yes, I have done a lot of people. And sure, I talk about some of it. But, no I haven’t done...
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Rebecca Blanton
Dec 21, 20153 min read
Cheating
If you practice consensual non-monogamy, can you cheat? The short answer is, “Yes.” I practice ethical non-monogamy. My friends who are...
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Rebecca Blanton
Nov 18, 20154 min read
So, you want to date a poly girl…
Guys, some of us girls have found out your secrets. We know that there are a lot of you who use online dating sites to find Ms. Right Now...
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