I’m voting pro ho this election. For months, weird Donny has been calling Kamala Harris a “ho.” He has made claims that she will be “the...

Meg Elison, Author I finally got to talk to one of my favorite authors, Meg Elison. She has written the Road to Nowhere series, Big Girl,...

If you read much sex writing or feminist think pieces you are probably innunadate with work on the ‘orgasm gap’ and the admonition to...

With the 2020 election just days from now, I have spent an enormous amount of time thinking about power: structural power, institutional...

For those of you unfamiliar with Fetlife, it is a social media site for kinky folks (kinky defined very broadly). Currently, there is a...

I have spent nearly 30 years working in political activism. My graduate work in political psychology focused on identity, education and...

This weekend, the call for women (sic, originals post was problematically gendered) to post “me too” on their Facebook page to indicate...

With the passing of Hugh Hefner today, lots of sex writers and educators are reflecting on his influence on their lives and work. It is...

In Kentucky, Democrat Mary Lou Marzain has introduced House Bill 369. HB369 requires men to get their partner’s permission before...

In The Princess Bride one character keeps using the term “inconceivable.” Every time he says something is inconceivable the thing...

We are six days out from the shock of the cheeto’s election. Things are starting to clarify how various social justice groups are going...

I get naked in public… a lot. I do burlesque and performance art with a number of groups and much of it involves taking my clothes off....

What is portrayed in the popular media makes a big difference. Not a profound statement,  but most people- even those who agree- often...

I have been called out on this blog several times for referring to myself as a “girl.” There are people out there, mostly women, who hate...

I am a feminist. I am a submissive. This is my choice. There is no conflict between the two for me. However, my submission is not an act...

I want to talk about perceptions versus reality of submission. There are a lot of misconceptions for both vanilla folks and newbie...