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Rebecca Blanton
Jun 22, 20217 min read
7 Tips for Hosting an Orgy
As more of us get vaccinated and back out there, so many of y’all are posting about having a slutty summer. Yay! I strongly encourage...
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Rebecca Blanton
Jun 2, 20214 min read
Why Mantras Are Important to BDSM
You are probably familiar with mantras. They are short statements or words said repeatedly to help focus you. They are rooted in Buddhism...
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Rebecca Blanton
May 28, 20212 min read
What Do Kinky Girls Keep in Their Bedside Table?
We all know that drawer- the on in the bedside table which houses all the most used, go-to devices and more! I keep all my most essential...
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Rebecca Blanton
Apr 28, 202112 min read
What Is a Submissive’s Responsibility?
I love it when I come across people writing about submission in a deep and thoughtful way! If you have not discovered The Pleasure Coach,...
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Rebecca Blanton
Apr 9, 20214 min read
Need a Little Sexy Inspiration? Try This!
One think a lot of people new to kink and BDSM find surprising is that even with the most experienced kinky folks, we can get a bit bored...
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Rebecca Blanton
Feb 22, 20215 min read
7 Tips to Improve Your Sexy Banter
Listen on Spotify Want to stimulate the biggest sex organ for anyone? You need to get their brain aroused! While many of us rely on...
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Rebecca Blanton
Feb 16, 20214 min read
Sex Life in a Rut? Break Out of It With These 5 Tips
Listen on Spotify One of my favorite scenes from a movie is the therapy scene in the beginning of The Ref. Judy Davis and Kevin Spacey...
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Rebecca Blanton
Nov 16, 202010 min read
Having a Hard Time Feeling Sexy? You are Not Alone!
Its been a hard year. A. Very. Hard. Year. Between COVID lockdowns and restrictions, the election, the United States beginning to recon...
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Rebecca Blanton
May 4, 20203 min read
Submission and Control
A vast percentage of posts about submission and control (including mine) are about the relationship between a submissive and their...
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Rebecca Blanton
Apr 22, 20204 min read
Six Sexting Tips
With shelter in place orders dragging on more folks are trying sexting and sexy video chatting as an alternative to in-person hook-ups....
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Rebecca Blanton
Mar 18, 20203 min read
Sex in the Apocalypse
Social distancing has definitely put a cramp in many sex lives. Online dating profiles are now including things like, “I have toilet...
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Rebecca Blanton
Dec 9, 20194 min read
10 Things Every Bottom Should Know
Guest Post by Peter Minkoff (Homo Culture Magazine) *This article is written mostly for gay men but has great advice for anyone engaging...
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Rebecca Blanton
Dec 3, 20195 min read
What Monogamous Folks Can Learn from Non-Monogamy
Monogamy is an idealized relationship style. Its “all-or-nothing.” One slip up – one flirtation leading to a kiss, one sexual encounter,...
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Rebecca Blanton
Aug 27, 20194 min read
Sexier Sex? Plan for it!
I can remember the first time I read Macho Sluts by Pat Califia. While all the sex was really hot, a few of the stories stood out because...
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Rebecca Blanton
Jun 18, 20193 min read
Why Collars Are Important to BDSM
Guest Post By: Spices of Lust Your BDSM experience is personal to you — and your partners. It’s meant to be whatever you make of it, and...
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Rebecca Blanton
May 23, 20196 min read
Adult Playtime: Adding Games to Your Love Life
One of the things I have always loved about BDSM and kink is the value it puts on play. Kinky folks call all the different activities we...
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Rebecca Blanton
May 16, 20195 min read
Shy? Here is how to open up
Shyness is something I have had a problem with personally. However, I have had several partners who are deeply reticent to talk about...
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Rebecca Blanton
Apr 22, 20197 min read
Want to Improve Your Sex Life? This Tip Works Every Time!
Sorry for the click bait title, but it got you here. Now for some actual substance. I have been talking to a lot of folks over 40 about...
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Rebecca Blanton
Jan 4, 20197 min read
Loving the Consistently Inconsistent Partner
Dear Readers, I’m back after a long time off. Unfortunately my health battles continue and there is no help from the medical community....
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Rebecca Blanton
Jun 27, 20185 min read
Sexual Healing (part 1)
The theme of healing through kink has come up repeatedly in both my reading and real life a lot lately. For me, this is a touchy subject....
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