It’s great that vanilla America is finally discovering the idea of consent. Not our judges or politicians apparently, but a large number...

News headlines are floating around about 20 percent of Millennials identifying as “non-binary.” This is based on a new study by GLAAD...

Twitter has decided they want to wipe out bisexuality. Over the past week, Twitter has hidden any photos with the hashtag “bisexual.” The...

We come out today because Cleve designed and Gilbert sewed; Alvin danced And RuPaul doesn’t always wear pants. Leslie got the Stone Butch...

I pass as a heterosexual cis-female and I hate that. I have always passed (well, more or less) regardless of what I wear, my hair,...

The other night I was at a poetry open mic billed as a “safe space” for the LGBTQAII community. As per the norm in such spaces, the host...

It is Pride month. This year is particularly politically charged. There are fights about adding black and brown stripes to the Pride...

Everyone fucks up. It is the result of being human beings. Pride this year has presented one million more ways for us to screw up and...

It’s Pride month again. This is the second year pride comes when I have a male partner and we are exclusive. This makes pride events...

Kink, in many forms, is now more popular and more visible than ever. I knew we had gone mainstream when American Dad, Family Guy and...

A friend of mine, an immigrant from Eastern Europe, just became an American citizen. Upon receiving her passport, she posted on Facebook...

In The Princess Bride one character keeps using the term “inconceivable.” Every time he says something is inconceivable the thing...

Let’s talk about the idea of “religious freedom” and why it is absolutely imperative for all of us to be as queer and kinky as possible....

I have never chosen a partner to make a political point. However, I live in a country where my body and my sexuality are constantly under...

The presence of non-binary gendered folks is becoming more known. Some groups in the kink and queer worlds are starting to recognize that...

Hey my kinky peeps! I love you. I do. But, as a community, we have got some work to do. We are not inclusive as we should be. We are...

We are six days out from the shock of the cheeto’s election. Things are starting to clarify how various social justice groups are going...

I came out in 1988. Gay rights (it was called Gay rights at the time) were beginning to get some momentum. However, the queer movement...

I know you are dancing and drinking and celebrating what you see is your candidate winning. I know you don’t get why most Americans (and...

Vice.com just put out an article about people seeking to qualify polyamory as a sexual orientation. It’s not, but don’t stop reading....