The physical activities of kink - spanking, tying up people, blindfolds- are what most folks think this lifestyle is all about. Putting...

In the world of BDMS, power exchange, and kinky shenanigans, people who identify as having a 24/7 dynamic are often seen as the “ideal”...

Communication is key. You have heard it hundreds, if not thousands of time when it comes to creating successful relationships and...

Being single, or at least being in a position to date, during the pandemic is challenging. We all crave human touch and interaction. We...

Dating while kinky can be fun. It can also be immensely frustrating! Finding and connecting with a partner who matches you on desire,...

One of the most difficult issues of being a submissive or other s-type is having a disagreement with your dominant. Power exchange...

You receive messages about sex and sexuality your entire live. From the media you watch, listen to, and read, to how your parents...

If you are new-ish to kink you may be under the impression that power exchange and kink are specifically for sex and intimate play time....

Listen on Spotify Finding out your partner has cheated on you is often devastating. Regardless of your relationship style (monogamous,...

If you are into role playing, most likely you are familiar with the classics: student/teacher, parent/child, landowner/servant,...

One think a lot of people new to kink and BDSM find surprising is that even with the most experienced kinky folks, we can get a bit bored...

Listen on Spotify One of my favorite scenes from a movie is the therapy scene in the beginning of The Ref. Judy Davis and Kevin Spacey...

January 2021 brings both the desire to set goals for the new year and marks ten months in various stages of lockdown for most of us. Many...

I am so excited to announce I will be working with Wicked Grounds to host “30 Days of Kinky Self-Discovery” in January 2021. So many...

Many of us identify as “service submissives.” We enjoy serving others (at least we enjoy serving a D-type). Some of us (including me)...

A formatted and printable version of this post is located here: 30 days of kinky self-discoveryDownload I’ll be honest. I have been...

A vast percentage of posts about submission and control (including mine) are about the relationship between a submissive and their...

With shelter in place orders dragging on more folks are trying sexting and sexy video chatting as an alternative to in-person hook-ups....

Monogamy is an idealized relationship style. Its “all-or-nothing.” One slip up – one flirtation leading to a kiss, one sexual encounter,...

Guest Post By: Spices of Lust Your BDSM experience is personal to you — and your partners. It’s meant to be whatever you make of it, and...