Thought about joining Fetlife.com but have some concerns? Worried that your employer or ex-spouse will find your account and out you?...

Whether you personally are new to kink, or you are dating someone new to kink, it is an exciting time filled with fun and learning! It...

In a most predictable move, once BDSM became a topic most American’s had heard about, abusers co-opted its language to justify their...

One think a lot of people new to kink and BDSM find surprising is that even with the most experienced kinky folks, we can get a bit bored...

For those of you unfamiliar with Fetlife, it is a social media site for kinky folks (kinky defined very broadly). Currently, there is a...

Lots of people claim to be an expert in kink and BDSM. I bring this up because recently a couple of people referred to me as an “expert.”...

I like porn. I struggle with that fact at times. I know the industry can be very exploitative and that the body images featured in porn...

The timing of this post is prompted by a discussion currently occurring on Fetlife (major social network site for the kink community). A...