Fetlife How-To’s
Thought about joining Fetlife.com but have some concerns? Worried that your employer or ex-spouse will find your account and out you?...
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Love letters to a unicorn is a blog about submission, kink, power exchange, and sex from the perspective of a bottom. It provides sex toy reviews and a vetted list of resources as well.
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Rebecca Blanton
Aug 2, 20215 min read
7 Tips When You Are New to Kink
Whether you personally are new to kink, or you are dating someone new to kink, it is an exciting time filled with fun and learning! It...
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Rebecca Blanton
Jun 29, 20214 min read
7 Tips to Help You Screen For Abusers on Kink Sites
In a most predictable move, once BDSM became a topic most American’s had heard about, abusers co-opted its language to justify their...
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Rebecca Blanton
Apr 9, 20214 min read
Need a Little Sexy Inspiration? Try This!
One think a lot of people new to kink and BDSM find surprising is that even with the most experienced kinky folks, we can get a bit bored...
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Rebecca Blanton
Apr 25, 20188 min read
Fetlife Protest Isn’t Just a “Feminist Thing”
For those of you unfamiliar with Fetlife, it is a social media site for kinky folks (kinky defined very broadly). Currently, there is a...
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Rebecca Blanton
Sep 27, 20154 min read
10,000 hours
Lots of people claim to be an expert in kink and BDSM. I bring this up because recently a couple of people referred to me as an “expert.”...
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Rebecca Blanton
Sep 18, 20155 min read
Bodies in Porn
I like porn. I struggle with that fact at times. I know the industry can be very exploitative and that the body images featured in porn...
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Rebecca Blanton
Jul 19, 20155 min read
Loving Black Men
The timing of this post is prompted by a discussion currently occurring on Fetlife (major social network site for the kink community). A...
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