I was lucky enough to get to interview Mir Green from Wicked Grounds today and it helped me refine a few thoughts I have been playing...

Ah, politicians are once again engaging in a favorite past-time: fanning fears of massive child predator rings as a pretense to get rid...

Four years ago I posted about the difficulty of navigating BDSM and racism. The language we use (Master/slave) and many of our practices...

With the 2020 election just days from now, I have spent an enormous amount of time thinking about power: structural power, institutional...

I have spent nearly 30 years working in political activism. My graduate work in political psychology focused on identity, education and...

There is a new call to add a K for “kink” to the LGBTQ+ acronym. This call for more inclusion has highlighted a couple of issues in both...

This weekend, the call for women (sic, originals post was problematically gendered) to post “me too” on their Facebook page to indicate...

It is Pride month. This year is particularly politically charged. There are fights about adding black and brown stripes to the Pride...

In The Princess Bride one character keeps using the term “inconceivable.” Every time he says something is inconceivable the thing...

Let’s talk about the idea of “religious freedom” and why it is absolutely imperative for all of us to be as queer and kinky as possible....

Lately I feel like I am watching one of those suspense or horror films where the protagonist makes a mistake in the beginning (e.g.,...

I have never chosen a partner to make a political point. However, I live in a country where my body and my sexuality are constantly under...

Hey my kinky peeps! I love you. I do. But, as a community, we have got some work to do. We are not inclusive as we should be. We are...

The recent election of the racist cheeto has many folks in the kink community reeling. We are hurt and horrified by the hate harbored in...

The worst part of the aftermath of being raped was being told over and over again that I must report the rape. Every health professional...

I get naked in public… a lot. I do burlesque and performance art with a number of groups and much of it involves taking my clothes off....

I am sick about the news from Orlando this morning. I am sick of living in a country that allows churches and mosques and temples to...

I have had to come out about things a few times in my life. I’m queer. I’m bipolar. I am kinky. None of these things are obvious at first...