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Ayzad: Embracing Duende
https://www.podbean.com/media/share/pb-bhbzt-12a4b26 Guest: Ayzad Former Italian journalist turned kink writer and coach, Ayzad joins Fat...
Rebecca Blanton
Aug 21, 20221 min read
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Mistress Schari: This Wasn’t Covered in the Book
https://www.podbean.com/media/share/pb-8ug3c-1289382 Guest: Mistress Schari, professional Dominatrix Mistress Shari has gone from...
Rebecca Blanton
Jul 31, 20221 min read
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Why is sexting with strangers only possible on a secure chat site?
SPONSORED POST from AROUSR Chatting with strangers isn’t really something that you have to go out of your way to find. There are lots of...
Rebecca Blanton
Jul 30, 20224 min read
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Sexual Fantasy Research
Sponsored Post We don’t tend to talk about sexual fantasies with many people. Too many of us carry shame around the things we know turn...
Rebecca Blanton
Jul 24, 20222 min read
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A Sexy Bucket List: How many have you done?
I am a fan of sexual and intimacy goal setting. It is a way to prioritize your pleasure and not let it languish as life happens. It also...
Rebecca Blanton
May 25, 20222 min read
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Rae Luna: I Know I’m Hot
Rae Luna https://www.podbean.com/media/share/pb-8aszk-1229636 Guest: Rae Luna, burlesque and go-go dancer This week we continue...
Rebecca Blanton
May 16, 20221 min read
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Kink-Life Balance: Is 24/7 Really for You?
In the world of BDMS, power exchange, and kinky shenanigans, people who identify as having a 24/7 dynamic are often seen as the “ideal”...
Rebecca Blanton
May 3, 20224 min read
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Summer Reading List
Meg Elison, Author I finally got to talk to one of my favorite authors, Meg Elison. She has written the Road to Nowhere series, Big Girl,...
Rebecca Blanton
Apr 11, 20221 min read
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The #1 Thing Dom(me)s Hate!
I work with a lot of kinky folks of all identities and levels of experience. When I talk to folks from the left side of the slash, they...
Rebecca Blanton
Mar 28, 20224 min read
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Should Submissives Express THEIR Needs?
When you are submissive or enjoy being submissive with a partner, navigating your own desires can be tricky. As submissives, we sometime...
Rebecca Blanton
Mar 15, 20223 min read
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Ep. 201: EARNIT Act & Rainbow Kisses
https://www.podbean.com/media/share/pb-fwe4r-11ba36a We’re BACK!!! EARNIT ACT– Sen. Lindsay Graham is trying to create a way to allow...
Rebecca Blanton
Feb 27, 20221 min read
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One Question Every Submissive Needs to Answer
When I am on my knees, looking up at my Dom, waiting on his command, I am in complete bliss. There is something wonderful and liberating...
Rebecca Blanton
Feb 21, 20222 min read
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Head Space 101
If you have spent any time on kink blogs, podcasts, or in a class, you have heard people mention “head space.” Head space refers to the...
Rebecca Blanton
Feb 5, 20226 min read
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How To Communicate When You Hate Long Talks
Communication is key. You have heard it hundreds, if not thousands of time when it comes to creating successful relationships and...
Rebecca Blanton
Jan 24, 20224 min read
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Dating in an On-going Pandemic
Being single, or at least being in a position to date, during the pandemic is challenging. We all crave human touch and interaction. We...
Rebecca Blanton
Jan 12, 20224 min read
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Getting What You Want in 2022: Step 1
It is almost the end of 2021. I know mine has been exhausting. While the career aspect is going strong and health is slowly improving,...
Rebecca Blanton
Dec 26, 20212 min read
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Which Nipple Clips are Right for You?
There are many styles of nipple clips out there? How do you find the one’s which are right for you? Nipples are erogenous zones for all...
Rebecca Blanton
Nov 29, 20213 min read
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Home For the Holidays? Ways to stay kinky while visiting relatives
Nothing puts a damper of getting down and dirty as visiting the parents for the holidays! With mom, dad, the kids, grandparents, or other...
Rebecca Blanton
Nov 1, 20213 min read
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BDSM Tips for Beginners
Sponsored Post from HotCherry.com Of all sex practices, BDSM might just be the most misunderstood. Many people associate it with...
Rebecca Blanton
Oct 23, 20215 min read
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4 Unexepected ways Audio Porn is Better Than Sex
By April Sutphen Sponsored Post Some people might argue that there’s no better feeling in the world than having sex, when in actuality,...
Rebecca Blanton
Oct 7, 20215 min read
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