5 Common Beliefs Which Undermine Your Sex Life
You receive messages about sex and sexuality your entire live. From the media you watch, listen to, and read, to how your parents...
top of page
Love letters to a unicorn is a blog about submission, kink, power exchange, and sex from the perspective of a bottom. It provides sex toy reviews and a vetted list of resources as well.
Search
Rebecca Blanton
Aug 18, 20214 min read
BDSM Beyond the Bedroom
If you are new-ish to kink you may be under the impression that power exchange and kink are specifically for sex and intimate play time....
11 views0 comments
Rebecca Blanton
Jul 22, 20216 min read
Combining Weed and Kink? Read This!
Photo by Kindel Media on Pexels.com Weed is now legal in 18 U.S. states and the District of Columbia; two countries (Canada and Uruguay)...
10 views0 comments
Rebecca Blanton
Jul 16, 20217 min read
How Do You Create an Aftercare Plan?
Aftercare is a frequently mentioned idea in kink/BDSM classes and touted as “important” for safe, sane, and consensual play. Most of the...
13 views0 comments
Rebecca Blanton
Jun 22, 20217 min read
7 Tips for Hosting an Orgy
As more of us get vaccinated and back out there, so many of y’all are posting about having a slutty summer. Yay! I strongly encourage...
7 views0 comments
Rebecca Blanton
Apr 12, 20214 min read
10 New Role Play Ideas!
If you are into role playing, most likely you are familiar with the classics: student/teacher, parent/child, landowner/servant,...
16 views0 comments
Rebecca Blanton
Feb 22, 20215 min read
7 Tips to Improve Your Sexy Banter
Listen on Spotify Want to stimulate the biggest sex organ for anyone? You need to get their brain aroused! While many of us rely on...
12 views0 comments
Rebecca Blanton
Feb 16, 20214 min read
Sex Life in a Rut? Break Out of It With These 5 Tips
Listen on Spotify One of my favorite scenes from a movie is the therapy scene in the beginning of The Ref. Judy Davis and Kevin Spacey...
5 views0 comments
Rebecca Blanton
Jan 22, 20213 min read
Expanding Your Kink
January 2021 brings both the desire to set goals for the new year and marks ten months in various stages of lockdown for most of us. Many...
15 views0 comments
Rebecca Blanton
Nov 30, 20204 min read
Vaginal Dryness? It’s More Than “Just Add Lube”
I am a huge fan of lube as a normal part of sex. I have been using it since I discovered it in my teens. It is essential for fisting,...
5 views0 comments
Rebecca Blanton
Nov 16, 202010 min read
Having a Hard Time Feeling Sexy? You are Not Alone!
Its been a hard year. A. Very. Hard. Year. Between COVID lockdowns and restrictions, the election, the United States beginning to recon...
3 views0 comments
Rebecca Blanton
Jun 23, 20208 min read
Fisting 101
So, you want to try fisting. Or you heard about it. Or you tried it and it didn’t quite work. Well, let me welcome you to the wonderful...
11 views0 comments
Rebecca Blanton
Mar 18, 20203 min read
Sex in the Apocalypse
Social distancing has definitely put a cramp in many sex lives. Online dating profiles are now including things like, “I have toilet...
3 views0 comments
Rebecca Blanton
Jan 21, 20206 min read
National “Weird Sex” Day
Valentine’s Day in America is basically the National Day for Weird Sex. After the age of 18 most of us feel the social pressure to do...
11 views0 comments
Rebecca Blanton
Jan 14, 20207 min read
10 Things EVERY Kinky Person Should Try
We all have our limits, be they soft or hard. Not everyone likes spanking. Not everyone enjoys rope. We are all loosely bound by our...
13 views0 comments
Rebecca Blanton
Sep 14, 20195 min read
Pain. The Good, The Bad, the Fun!
There is the myth that the Inuit have some amazing number of words for snow. They don’t- but we have all heard the myth. The concept is...
6 views0 comments
Rebecca Blanton
Aug 27, 20194 min read
Sexier Sex? Plan for it!
I can remember the first time I read Macho Sluts by Pat Califia. While all the sex was really hot, a few of the stories stood out because...
6 views0 comments
Rebecca Blanton
Jul 2, 20196 min read
I’m Tired. Can We Just Shut Up and Fuck?
I’m feeling old and crotchety after a month of Pride. Maybe its because I have been doing Pride for more than three decades and it is not...
4 views0 comments
Rebecca Blanton
May 23, 20196 min read
Adult Playtime: Adding Games to Your Love Life
One of the things I have always loved about BDSM and kink is the value it puts on play. Kinky folks call all the different activities we...
5 views0 comments
Rebecca Blanton
May 11, 20191 min read
Epsidoe 14: Disability, Healing, and Star Trek
https://www.podbean.com/media/share/pb-nmdui-b0ec4e Hosts: Auntie Vice and CharRon Smith Guests: Kirsten Shultz, Katori Knight, Amber...
4 views0 comments
Seen In:
bottom of page