We need to talk to our kids about how to watch porn. I have had this conversation a lot since I put out my book last year. I think it is...

American’s are weird about sex. Very weird. We use sex to sell everything in America from hamburgers to perfume to children’s toys. We...

I have been away from this blog for a couple of weeks due to illness. For two and a half years I have been trying to get some chronic...

I have had a bunch of conversations lately about incorporating sex into BDSM play. Some people have to have both in a session, others do...

HIV/AIDS has played a prominent role in my life. The first volunteer work I started with at 13 was volunteering for an AIDS organization...

I teach a class about setting a scene from the submissive’s perspective. I spend about 90 minutes talking about engaging the 5 senses and...

Want to have amazing sex, and I mean mind-blowingly good sex? Want your partners to think you are the best they have ever had? Want to...

I am a feminist. I am a submissive. This is my choice. There is no conflict between the two for me. However, my submission is not an act...

This is an open letter to anyone who has recently discovered that there is a kinky world out there and they now think they want to...

For a long time it was odd to me that I could be in a social situation where my multiple intimate partners were present, we would all be...