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Love letters to a unicorn is a blog about submission, kink, power exchange, and sex from the perspective of a bottom. It provides sex toy reviews and a vetted list of resources as well.
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Rebecca Blanton
Jun 29, 20214 min read
7 Tips to Help You Screen For Abusers on Kink Sites
In a most predictable move, once BDSM became a topic most American’s had heard about, abusers co-opted its language to justify their...
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Rebecca Blanton
Dec 6, 20165 min read
Good Kinky Fun vs. Abuse
If I am really honest about some kink behavior, it looks like abuse out of context. I have seen more than one play scene where the bottom...
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Rebecca Blanton
Aug 6, 20159 min read
Discipline, Punishment and Abuse
I went to a meeting of submissives this week and an interesting discussion question was posed: What is the difference between discipline,...
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Rebecca Blanton
Aug 3, 20158 min read
Kink Visibility
I have been asked several times in the past few months about what I think about the growing visibility of kink. With the massive...
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Rebecca Blanton
Jul 16, 20159 min read
10 Things for Newbies to Think About
I was lucky when it came to discovering kink. There was almost no separation between my first kiss and my awareness of the kink...
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Rebecca Blanton
Apr 29, 20157 min read
Myths About Submission
I want to talk about perceptions versus reality of submission. There are a lot of misconceptions for both vanilla folks and newbie...
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Rebecca Blanton
Feb 11, 20154 min read
Why the Anti-Porn Folks are Wrong About 50 Shade
There are several avidly anti-porn groups that are doing huge social media pushes asking people to boycott 50 Shades of Grey. The general...
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