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Love letters to a unicorn is a blog about submission, kink, power exchange, and sex from the perspective of a bottom. It provides sex toy reviews and a vetted list of resources as well.

7 Tips to Help You Screen For Abusers on Kink Sites

Rebecca Blanton

Jun 29, 20214 min read

7 Tips to Help You Screen For Abusers on Kink Sites

In a most predictable move, once BDSM became a topic most American’s had heard about, abusers co-opted its language to justify their...

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Rebecca Blanton

Dec 6, 20165 min read

Good Kinky Fun vs. Abuse

If I am really honest about some kink behavior, it looks like abuse out of context. I have seen more than one play scene where the bottom...

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Rebecca Blanton

Aug 6, 20159 min read

Discipline, Punishment and Abuse

I went to a meeting of submissives this week and an interesting discussion question was posed: What is the difference between discipline,...

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Rebecca Blanton

Aug 3, 20158 min read

Kink Visibility

I have been asked several times in the past few months about what I think about the growing visibility of kink. With the massive...

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Rebecca Blanton

Jul 16, 20159 min read

10 Things for Newbies to Think About

I was lucky when it came to discovering kink. There was almost no separation between my first kiss and my awareness of the kink...

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Rebecca Blanton

Apr 29, 20157 min read

Myths About Submission

I want to talk about perceptions versus reality of submission. There are a lot of misconceptions for both vanilla folks and newbie...

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Why the Anti-Porn Folks are Wrong About 50 Shade

Rebecca Blanton

Feb 11, 20154 min read

Why the Anti-Porn Folks are Wrong About 50 Shade

There are several avidly anti-porn groups that are doing huge social media pushes asking people to boycott 50 Shades of Grey. The general...

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