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Is Your Kink Practice Missing Something Critical?
If you have been listening to Fat Chicks on Top , you know I’ve been talking to a variety of kinky folks who entered the scene over 20...
Rebecca Blanton
Aug 19, 20225 min read
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Mistress Schari: This Wasn’t Covered in the Book
https://www.podbean.com/media/share/pb-8ug3c-1289382 Guest: Mistress Schari, professional Dominatrix Mistress Shari has gone from...
Rebecca Blanton
Jul 31, 20221 min read
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Why is sexting with strangers only possible on a secure chat site?
SPONSORED POST from AROUSR Chatting with strangers isn’t really something that you have to go out of your way to find. There are lots of...
Rebecca Blanton
Jul 30, 20224 min read
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This Could Save Your Life!
Kink play can be intense! That is part of the fun of it. We play physically and psychologically hard. Weather you are into impact play,...
Rebecca Blanton
Jul 26, 20226 min read
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Sexual Fantasy Research
Sponsored Post We don’t tend to talk about sexual fantasies with many people. Too many of us carry shame around the things we know turn...
Rebecca Blanton
Jul 24, 20222 min read
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A Sexy Bucket List: How many have you done?
I am a fan of sexual and intimacy goal setting. It is a way to prioritize your pleasure and not let it languish as life happens. It also...
Rebecca Blanton
May 25, 20222 min read
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Shay Tizano: Bound Up in Joy
https://www.podbean.com/media/share/pb-amw4e-121fc8c Guest: Shay Tizano, Rope expert, Erotic Performer Author of Tying and Flying and...
Rebecca Blanton
May 8, 20221 min read
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Kink-Life Balance: Is 24/7 Really for You?
In the world of BDMS, power exchange, and kinky shenanigans, people who identify as having a 24/7 dynamic are often seen as the “ideal”...
Rebecca Blanton
May 3, 20224 min read
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7 Ways to Expand Your Dynamic
BDSM and power exchange is often portrayed as something which exists as something in the bedroom. Yes, a large part of people’s dynamics...
Rebecca Blanton
Apr 22, 20224 min read
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The #1 Thing Dom(me)s Hate!
I work with a lot of kinky folks of all identities and levels of experience. When I talk to folks from the left side of the slash, they...
Rebecca Blanton
Mar 28, 20224 min read
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One Question Every Submissive Needs to Answer
When I am on my knees, looking up at my Dom, waiting on his command, I am in complete bliss. There is something wonderful and liberating...
Rebecca Blanton
Feb 21, 20222 min read
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Head Space 101
If you have spent any time on kink blogs, podcasts, or in a class, you have heard people mention “head space.” Head space refers to the...
Rebecca Blanton
Feb 5, 20226 min read
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How To Communicate When You Hate Long Talks
Communication is key. You have heard it hundreds, if not thousands of time when it comes to creating successful relationships and...
Rebecca Blanton
Jan 24, 20224 min read
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Fetlife How-To’s
Thought about joining Fetlife.com but have some concerns? Worried that your employer or ex-spouse will find your account and out you?...
Rebecca Blanton
Jan 17, 20221 min read
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Dating in an On-going Pandemic
Being single, or at least being in a position to date, during the pandemic is challenging. We all crave human touch and interaction. We...
Rebecca Blanton
Jan 12, 20224 min read
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Getting What You Want in 2022: Step 1
It is almost the end of 2021. I know mine has been exhausting. While the career aspect is going strong and health is slowly improving,...
Rebecca Blanton
Dec 26, 20212 min read
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Which Nipple Clips are Right for You?
There are many styles of nipple clips out there? How do you find the one’s which are right for you? Nipples are erogenous zones for all...
Rebecca Blanton
Nov 29, 20213 min read
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Home For the Holidays? Ways to stay kinky while visiting relatives
Nothing puts a damper of getting down and dirty as visiting the parents for the holidays! With mom, dad, the kids, grandparents, or other...
Rebecca Blanton
Nov 1, 20213 min read
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BDSM Tips for Beginners
Sponsored Post from HotCherry.com Of all sex practices, BDSM might just be the most misunderstood. Many people associate it with...
Rebecca Blanton
Oct 23, 20215 min read
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2021 Holiday Gift Guide
It’s that time of year again! Time to spend days online and in stores looking for great gifts for family, friends, and co-workers forcing...
Rebecca Blanton
Oct 22, 20211 min read
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