The #1 Thing Dom(me)s Hate!
I work with a lot of kinky folks of all identities and levels of experience. When I talk to folks from the left side of the slash, they...
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Love letters to a unicorn is a blog about submission, kink, power exchange, and sex from the perspective of a bottom. It provides sex toy reviews and a vetted list of resources as well.
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Rebecca Blanton
Jan 24, 20224 min read
How To Communicate When You Hate Long Talks
Communication is key. You have heard it hundreds, if not thousands of time when it comes to creating successful relationships and...
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Rebecca Blanton
Sep 2, 20214 min read
Options Other Than Faking Orgasms
If you read much sex writing or feminist think pieces you are probably innunadate with work on the ‘orgasm gap’ and the admonition to...
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Rebecca Blanton
Jun 22, 20217 min read
7 Tips for Hosting an Orgy
As more of us get vaccinated and back out there, so many of y’all are posting about having a slutty summer. Yay! I strongly encourage...
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Rebecca Blanton
Feb 10, 20214 min read
Do You Always Need a Safe Word?
Safe words are one of the most referenced kink ideas. The concept of a simple word which stops all action and indicates someone is not...
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Rebecca Blanton
Nov 30, 20204 min read
Vaginal Dryness? It’s More Than “Just Add Lube”
I am a huge fan of lube as a normal part of sex. I have been using it since I discovered it in my teens. It is essential for fisting,...
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Rebecca Blanton
May 16, 20195 min read
Shy? Here is how to open up
Shyness is something I have had a problem with personally. However, I have had several partners who are deeply reticent to talk about...
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Rebecca Blanton
Apr 15, 20194 min read
Journaling (when you HATE to write)
Journaling is a common communication technique recommended in the kink community. However, most of us hate to write. I include myself in...
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Rebecca Blanton
Jan 4, 20197 min read
Loving the Consistently Inconsistent Partner
Dear Readers, I’m back after a long time off. Unfortunately my health battles continue and there is no help from the medical community....
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Rebecca Blanton
Sep 27, 201810 min read
10 Things Everyone Can Learn from Kink
One of the most fortuitous events in my life was discovering the kinky world at about the same time I started puberty. It provided me...
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Rebecca Blanton
Jul 23, 20185 min read
5 Questions for a Kinky First Date
The great thing about the advent of the internet, search engines, and millions of pages with information about kink/BDSM is that it has...
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Rebecca Blanton
Oct 23, 20177 min read
The Submissive’s Body & Chronic Pain
The submissive’s body is a unique thing. Our body is ours, first and foremost. We have the right and the responsibility to keep it safe....
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Rebecca Blanton
May 31, 20172 min read
Talking to Fat Girls About Your Body
I am a fat girl. I have been for a long time. I don’t mince words or try and elide the fact that I am fat. I am okay with it. Most people...
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Rebecca Blanton
Oct 25, 20165 min read
Insecurity Kills Relationships
Insecurity about did in my marriage. Other things killed it, but my insecurity was a big issue. I honestly thought I had conquered the...
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