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Rebecca Blanton
Aug 21, 20221 min read
Ayzad: Embracing Duende
https://www.podbean.com/media/share/pb-bhbzt-12a4b26 Guest: Ayzad Former Italian journalist turned kink writer and coach, Ayzad joins Fat...
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Rebecca Blanton
Aug 14, 20221 min read
Nika Cherrelle: Powerful Badass
https://www.podbean.com/media/share/pb-s7hhi-129b90f Guest: Nika Cherrelle: podcaster, fine artist/sculpture, educator, coash Nika...
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Rebecca Blanton
Jul 17, 20221 min read
Mir Green: Caffinatrix
https://www.podbean.com/media/share/pb-bfdtq-1275824 Guest: Mir Green, Owner of Wicked Grounds and kink educator Mir Green joins Fat...
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Rebecca Blanton
Jun 5, 20221 min read
Rahim Thawer:Gay, Muslim, and Fabulous!
https://www.podbean.com/media/share/pb-mfj2a-12413e4 Guest: Rahim Thawer, therapist, college professor Rahim Thawer is a therapist...
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Rebecca Blanton
May 22, 20221 min read
Dabby Longlegs: Learning to be Embodied
https://www.podbean.com/media/share/pb-xu7tt-1231ac8 Guest: Dabby Longlegs, burlesque and drag performer Dabby Longlegs, burlesque, drag,...
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Rebecca Blanton
Apr 17, 20221 min read
Imani Barbarin: Black, Disabled JOY!
https://www.podbean.com/media/share/pb-x8y8x-12006f8 Guest: Imani Barbarin, disabilities advocate Imani Barbarin (crutches and spice)...
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Rebecca Blanton
Oct 22, 20211 min read
2021 Holiday Gift Guide
It’s that time of year again! Time to spend days online and in stores looking for great gifts for family, friends, and co-workers forcing...
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Rebecca Blanton
Aug 2, 20215 min read
7 Tips When You Are New to Kink
Whether you personally are new to kink, or you are dating someone new to kink, it is an exciting time filled with fun and learning! It...
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Rebecca Blanton
Jan 11, 20213 min read
Is BDSM Inescapably Racist:4 years later
Four years ago I posted about the difficulty of navigating BDSM and racism. The language we use (Master/slave) and many of our practices...
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Rebecca Blanton
Jun 12, 20205 min read
Pride: Be Queer. Fuck the Patriarchy
Happy Pride Month! This year Pride has been cancelled in most locations due to COVID-19 and celebrations are looking a bit different....
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Rebecca Blanton
Jan 14, 20207 min read
10 Things EVERY Kinky Person Should Try
We all have our limits, be they soft or hard. Not everyone likes spanking. Not everyone enjoys rope. We are all loosely bound by our...
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Rebecca Blanton
Jul 2, 20196 min read
I’m Tired. Can We Just Shut Up and Fuck?
I’m feeling old and crotchety after a month of Pride. Maybe its because I have been doing Pride for more than three decades and it is not...
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Rebecca Blanton
Jun 2, 20184 min read
Make Pride Queer Again
It’s June, Pride Month. I have been out for three decades and have spent most of that time as a queer rights advocate. I have very mixed...
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Rebecca Blanton
Apr 18, 20186 min read
R.E.S.P.E.C.T. & Relationships
Power exchange relationships have many similarities to vanilla relationships. Both require kindness, understanding, communication, and...
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Rebecca Blanton
Nov 21, 20177 min read
Power of Apologies
I have been thinking a lot about apologies lately. Nationally, men have been issuing varying forms of apologies for sexually harassing...
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Rebecca Blanton
Aug 2, 20173 min read
The Problem with Passing
I pass as a heterosexual cis-female and I hate that. I have always passed (well, more or less) regardless of what I wear, my hair,...
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Rebecca Blanton
Jul 16, 20175 min read
Get Out of Your Head!
I want to address the apparently growing trend of discovering and practicing kink without connecting to actual humans you are not having...
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Rebecca Blanton
Jun 15, 20173 min read
Landmines and Pride
Everyone fucks up. It is the result of being human beings. Pride this year has presented one million more ways for us to screw up and...
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Rebecca Blanton
Jun 8, 20172 min read
Bi Pride
It’s Pride month again. This is the second year pride comes when I have a male partner and we are exclusive. This makes pride events...
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Rebecca Blanton
May 26, 20174 min read
Should Kink Assimilate?
Kink, in many forms, is now more popular and more visible than ever. I knew we had gone mainstream when American Dad, Family Guy and...
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