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Rebecca Blanton
Jan 27, 20191 min read
Decolonizing Beauty
https://www.podbean.com/media/share/pb-4bafi-a5edb8 Fat Chicks hosts Auntie Vice and Wendy Lewis interview Mariana Moscosos of the...
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Rebecca Blanton
Nov 11, 20181 min read
Episode 9: 40!!!
https://www.podbean.com/media/share/pb-gpaia-9ee5de 40!!! Guests: Evie Vane (author, blogger) and Tina Hayes (Belly Dancer/Model) Auntie...
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Rebecca Blanton
Mar 2, 20182 min read
Free the Pussy, Free the World
I have spent nearly 30 years working in political activism. My graduate work in political psychology focused on identity, education and...
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Rebecca Blanton
Jan 3, 20185 min read
Is Non-Binary the Future of Gender?
News headlines are floating around about 20 percent of Millennials identifying as “non-binary.” This is based on a new study by GLAAD...
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Rebecca Blanton
Sep 28, 20175 min read
Hef, Playboy, & American Sex
With the passing of Hugh Hefner today, lots of sex writers and educators are reflecting on his influence on their lives and work. It is...
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Rebecca Blanton
Sep 25, 20177 min read
Non-binary: Real or Rebellion?
Hello Readers! Sorry I have been away for so long. I had a severe infection and no help from doctors. But, despite the deplorable state...
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Rebecca Blanton
Jul 16, 20175 min read
Get Out of Your Head!
I want to address the apparently growing trend of discovering and practicing kink without connecting to actual humans you are not having...
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Rebecca Blanton
Jul 5, 20174 min read
Pronoun Wars, Part II
The other night I was at a poetry open mic billed as a “safe space” for the LGBTQAII community. As per the norm in such spaces, the host...
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Rebecca Blanton
Jun 16, 20177 min read
On Being “Beautiful Ugly”
Guest Author: Joie de Vivre Joie de Vivre is a the co-producer of Peepshow in San Francisco and a burlesque performer. She regularly...
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Rebecca Blanton
May 31, 20172 min read
Talking to Fat Girls About Your Body
I am a fat girl. I have been for a long time. I don’t mince words or try and elide the fact that I am fat. I am okay with it. Most people...
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Rebecca Blanton
May 26, 20174 min read
Should Kink Assimilate?
Kink, in many forms, is now more popular and more visible than ever. I knew we had gone mainstream when American Dad, Family Guy and...
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Rebecca Blanton
Sep 12, 20164 min read
On Certainty
At some point in the last decade culture in the United States started demanding that people be certain about everything. We collectively...
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Rebecca Blanton
Aug 17, 20165 min read
Do It For the Children! Media Representation
What is portrayed in the popular media makes a big difference. Not a profound statement, but most people- even those who agree- often...
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Rebecca Blanton
Jun 25, 20165 min read
Masculinity
I have been overwhelmed by the number of stories in the past few weeks about the horrors brought about by men who did not feel like they...
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Rebecca Blanton
Jun 16, 20164 min read
Sex-First! Polyamory Culture
First, let me get a few things in the open (if you are not already familiar). One, I like sex. I like it a lot and believe it should be...
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Rebecca Blanton
Jun 4, 20165 min read
Why I Stopped Caring About Gay Pride Events
Its June, which means its Gay Pride Month (or LGBT Pride, or LGBTQAAI Month, or whatever). Most cities, large and small, have some...
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Rebecca Blanton
May 16, 20165 min read
Comimg Out
I have had to come out about things a few times in my life. I’m queer. I’m bipolar. I am kinky. None of these things are obvious at first...
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Rebecca Blanton
May 9, 20164 min read
Its a Phase
I debated a lot before I decided to post this blog entry. I have been active in the LGBTQ movement for thirty years now. I know the...
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Rebecca Blanton
Apr 3, 20165 min read
On Virtue and Vice
8? 25? 105? 300? 1,023? Is there such a thing as having too many sexual partners? Are you a sex addict? Is sex your vice? Is sex a...
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Rebecca Blanton
Mar 22, 20166 min read
Talk to Your Kids About Porn!
We need to talk to our kids about how to watch porn. I have had this conversation a lot since I put out my book last year. I think it is...
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