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Love letters to a unicorn is a blog about submission, kink, power exchange, and sex from the perspective of a bottom. It provides sex toy reviews and a vetted list of resources as well.
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Rebecca Blanton
Feb 26, 20165 min read
Loving Pink and Being a Girl
I have been called out on this blog several times for referring to myself as a “girl.” There are people out there, mostly women, who hate...
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Rebecca Blanton
Nov 30, 20154 min read
World AIDS Day
HIV/AIDS has played a prominent role in my life. The first volunteer work I started with at 13 was volunteering for an AIDS organization...
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Rebecca Blanton
Nov 15, 20154 min read
Etiquette: How Not to be a Dick
One of the things I like most about the BDSM/kink community is the presence of rules and structure. These come in basic rules for...
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Rebecca Blanton
Oct 20, 20154 min read
Halloween
I love Halloween. Its basically the primary gay holiday in the U.S. I love dressing up, going out, having a ton of fun, and finishing the...
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Rebecca Blanton
Oct 17, 20153 min read
Its Not All About Sex
Okay, I get that most people not in the kink community believe that kink and BDSM only refer to sex. I get that kink and BDSM are very...
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Rebecca Blanton
Sep 18, 20155 min read
Bodies in Porn
I like porn. I struggle with that fact at times. I know the industry can be very exploitative and that the body images featured in porn...
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Rebecca Blanton
Sep 8, 20156 min read
To Be “Real”
You Got To Be Real – Cheryl Lynn (1978) There are few things in English I hate more than the insistence of modifying a social construct...
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Rebecca Blanton
Aug 28, 20156 min read
Mantra
I stand on the shoulders of giants. Men and women and transfolks who came before me, fought the impossible fights, loved with great...
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Rebecca Blanton
Aug 20, 20158 min read
We Need to Talk
We, as a society, need to talk a lot more about variants on sexuality and relationship styles. For a long time I have maintained that the...
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Rebecca Blanton
Aug 10, 20156 min read
Six Questions EVERYONE Should Answer About Sex (and 5 To Stop Asking Sexual and Gender Minorities)
I have had the benefit of being part of the both the queer and kink communities for a very long time now. Part of being part of sexual...
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Rebecca Blanton
Aug 3, 20158 min read
Kink Visibility
I have been asked several times in the past few months about what I think about the growing visibility of kink. With the massive...
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Rebecca Blanton
Jul 25, 20155 min read
Agendered
We are all born naked. Everything else is drag. ~RuPaul I want to take a concept from sexual orientation and evolve it to relate to...
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Rebecca Blanton
Jul 19, 20155 min read
Loving Black Men
The timing of this post is prompted by a discussion currently occurring on Fetlife (major social network site for the kink community). A...
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Rebecca Blanton
Jul 13, 20154 min read
The Flavor of “Sir”
I experience language differently than a lot of people. Words have sound and meaning, and I can see them written on a page as other do,...
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Rebecca Blanton
May 16, 20157 min read
Feminism, Bad Feminism, Choice, and Submission
I am a feminist. I am a submissive. This is my choice. There is no conflict between the two for me. However, my submission is not an act...
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Rebecca Blanton
Feb 22, 20158 min read
New to Kink? Curios about BDSM? Start here
This is an open letter to anyone who has recently discovered that there is a kinky world out there and they now think they want to...
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Rebecca Blanton
Feb 21, 20156 min read
Non-Monogamy – Its More Popular Than You Think
For a long time it was odd to me that I could be in a social situation where my multiple intimate partners were present, we would all be...
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