How Do You Create an Aftercare Plan?
Aftercare is a frequently mentioned idea in kink/BDSM classes and touted as “important” for safe, sane, and consensual play. Most of the...
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Love letters to a unicorn is a blog about submission, kink, power exchange, and sex from the perspective of a bottom. It provides sex toy reviews and a vetted list of resources as well.
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Rebecca Blanton
Oct 5, 20195 min read
Pain and Presence
There are different theories on how people “should” deal with pain. Some folks argue for being present with the pain. Some argue for...
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Rebecca Blanton
Jan 22, 20185 min read
7 Tips for the New Switch
So you want to try switching things up. Great! There are a lot of benefits to switching power positions (e.g., a submissive trying...
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Rebecca Blanton
Sep 7, 20165 min read
Triggers
Talking about “triggers” and starting posts and group discussions with “trigger warnings” is now de riguer in the kink community. It has...
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Rebecca Blanton
Aug 24, 20154 min read
Chasing the O
Being part of the kink and BDSM community provides an alternative conception of what is a good sexual encounter.In the vanilla-ish...
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Rebecca Blanton
Aug 6, 20159 min read
Discipline, Punishment and Abuse
I went to a meeting of submissives this week and an interesting discussion question was posed: What is the difference between discipline,...
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Rebecca Blanton
Aug 3, 20158 min read
Kink Visibility
I have been asked several times in the past few months about what I think about the growing visibility of kink. With the massive...
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Rebecca Blanton
Jul 16, 20159 min read
10 Things for Newbies to Think About
I was lucky when it came to discovering kink. There was almost no separation between my first kiss and my awareness of the kink...
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Rebecca Blanton
Jul 15, 20156 min read
Loving a Sub with Mental Illness
I live with Bipolar I. I have since I was about 11, diagnosed at 20. It is fundamental to who I am and I have never not thought about it...
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