Rebecca BlantonAug 2, 20215 min read7 Tips When You Are New to KinkWhether you personally are new to kink, or you are dating someone new to kink, it is an exciting time filled with fun and learning! It...
Rebecca BlantonApr 12, 20214 min read10 New Role Play Ideas!If you are into role playing, most likely you are familiar with the classics: student/teacher, parent/child, landowner/servant,...
Rebecca BlantonApr 2, 20195 min read“We Need to Talk”: Ambiguity in Relationships“We need to talk.” Its the sentence many of us live in fear of hearing from our partners. When we get a text or a message or a partner...
Rebecca BlantonJan 11, 20194 min readWhat Owning a Cat Taught Me About Kink, Polyam, and SexI’ll be honest, I have never been a huge cat fan. I mean, you adopt this pet who poos in your house, who is petty and controlling, and...
Rebecca BlantonJul 23, 20185 min read5 Questions for a Kinky First DateThe great thing about the advent of the internet, search engines, and millions of pages with information about kink/BDSM is that it has...
Rebecca BlantonMay 22, 20184 min readIdentifying vs. BecomingIn the kinky world we use a lot of labels. Queer, kinky, top, bottom, Master, slave, Domme, submissive, baby girl, pet, Daddy, switch,...