It is Pride month. This year is particularly politically charged. There are fights about adding black and brown stripes to the Pride...

Let’s talk about the idea of “religious freedom” and why it is absolutely imperative for all of us to be as queer and kinky as possible....

We are six days out from the shock of the cheeto’s election. Things are starting to clarify how various social justice groups are going...

What is portrayed in the popular media makes a big difference. Not a profound statement,  but most people- even those who agree- often...

When I woke to news of the mass murders in Orlando last month I was devastated. The pain was visceral. I cried for days. Dozens of my...

I am sick about the news from Orlando this morning. I am sick of living in a country that allows churches and mosques and temples to...

Its June, which means its Gay Pride Month (or LGBT Pride, or LGBTQAAI Month, or whatever). Most cities, large and small, have some...

I debated a lot before I decided to post this blog entry. I have been active in the LGBTQ movement for thirty years now. I know the...

American’s are weird about sex. Very weird. We use sex to sell everything in America from hamburgers to perfume to children’s toys. We...

To the Students of Oak Park HS in Kansas City, MO and their parents: Thank you. Thank you all for standing up for your classmate. I...

I have had the benefit of being part of the both the queer and kink communities for a very long time now. Part of being part of sexual...

I will begin by saying that I am thrilled five of the members of the Supreme Court were enlightened enough to understand that gay...