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7 Tips When You Are New to Kink
Whether you personally are new to kink, or you are dating someone new to kink, it is an exciting time filled with fun and learning! It...
Rebecca Blanton
Aug 2, 20215 min read
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What Owning a Cat Taught Me About Kink, Polyam, and Sex
I’ll be honest, I have never been a huge cat fan. I mean, you adopt this pet who poos in your house, who is petty and controlling, and...
Rebecca Blanton
Jan 11, 20194 min read
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Power of Apologies
I have been thinking a lot about apologies lately. Nationally, men have been issuing varying forms of apologies for sexually harassing...
Rebecca Blanton
Nov 21, 20177 min read
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In Praise of “Just a Phase”
We are living in an age where certainty is demanded. Any time someone changes their mind or expresses any level of uncertainty, people...
Rebecca Blanton
Mar 8, 20173 min read
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Consent: 2016 sstyle
One of the best things about the kink community is that it places consent front and center of community values. Not only do groups talk...
Rebecca Blanton
Sep 26, 20167 min read
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Is This Weird???
Simple answer… yes, yes it is. Regardless of what you do, it is weird to someone. One the the most shocking things I do or say is that I...
Rebecca Blanton
Apr 26, 20163 min read
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10 Things for Newbies to Think About
I was lucky when it came to discovering kink. There was almost no separation between my first kiss and my awareness of the kink...
Rebecca Blanton
Jul 16, 20159 min read
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Myths About Submission
I want to talk about perceptions versus reality of submission. There are a lot of misconceptions for both vanilla folks and newbie...
Rebecca Blanton
Apr 29, 20157 min read
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New to Kink? Curios about BDSM? Start here
This is an open letter to anyone who has recently discovered that there is a kinky world out there and they now think they want to...
Rebecca Blanton
Feb 22, 20158 min read
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