Rebecca BlantonAug 2, 20215 min read7 Tips When You Are New to KinkWhether you personally are new to kink, or you are dating someone new to kink, it is an exciting time filled with fun and learning! It...
Rebecca BlantonMar 15, 20214 min read7 Tips for Navigating the Post-COVID Kink WorldThings are beginning to open back up in the United States and elsewhere. While we are not at a point with public health to fully reopen...
Rebecca BlantonMar 11, 20215 min read6 Tips on Making Your Kink Venue/Event Emotionally/Socially Accessible (Part 2)Physical accessibility is only part of the picture when it comes to making spaces and events accessible. That is often the easy part! If...
Rebecca BlantonAug 21, 20189 min readNegotiation 101 for Subby TypesWe talk a lot about negotiation in the kink scene. Negotiating what you will and will not do, what you want and what your partner(s) want...
Rebecca BlantonJun 4, 20185 min readPlanning a SceneI love planning scenes. Figuring out the details, setting up the situations, and preparing the tools and clothing for a scene has always...
Rebecca BlantonNov 21, 20177 min readPower of ApologiesI have been thinking a lot about apologies lately. Nationally, men have been issuing varying forms of apologies for sexually harassing...