Rebecca BlantonJan 28, 20208 min readSo You Want to Try a Threesome…One of my favorite old BritComs is Coupling (sort of the British Friends). In one of the episodes the highly sexed Patrick announces that...
Rebecca BlantonDec 3, 20195 min readWhat Monogamous Folks Can Learn from Non-MonogamyMonogamy is an idealized relationship style. Its “all-or-nothing.” One slip up – one flirtation leading to a kiss, one sexual encounter,...
Rebecca BlantonJul 23, 20185 min read5 Questions for a Kinky First DateThe great thing about the advent of the internet, search engines, and millions of pages with information about kink/BDSM is that it has...
Rebecca BlantonFeb 4, 20184 min readAdding the K to “LGBTQ+” – NOThere is a new call to add a K for “kink” to the LGBTQ+ acronym. This call for more inclusion has highlighted a couple of issues in both...
Rebecca BlantonFeb 2, 20173 min readKinky ResistanceLet’s talk about the idea of “religious freedom” and why it is absolutely imperative for all of us to be as queer and kinky as possible....
Rebecca BlantonAug 21, 20165 min readPolyamory as a Sexual Orientation???Vice.com just put out an article about people seeking to qualify polyamory as a sexual orientation. It’s not, but don’t stop reading....
Rebecca BlantonJun 16, 20164 min readSex-First! Polyamory CultureFirst, let me get a few things in the open (if you are not already familiar). One, I like sex. I like it a lot and believe it should be...
Rebecca BlantonMay 15, 20163 min readYou Are Not as Poly or Mono As You ThinkI spend a lot of time talking to people and reading social media boards by both polyamorous and monogamous folks. Universally, people are...
Rebecca BlantonJan 26, 20165 min readUnicorn HuntersFirst, let me make clear that the way I am using “unicorn” here is as people do in the polyamory community: a bisexual woman seeking a...
Rebecca BlantonNov 18, 20154 min readSo, you want to date a poly girl…Guys, some of us girls have found out your secrets. We know that there are a lot of you who use online dating sites to find Ms. Right Now...
Rebecca BlantonMay 25, 20156 min readIs Jealousy Ever Healthy in a Relationship?The above image was posted on a poly board I am a part of and it started a short conversation. I had more to say about it than a Facebook...