What Is a Submissive’s Responsibility?
I love it when I come across people writing about submission in a deep and thoughtful way! If you have not discovered The Pleasure Coach,...
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Love letters to a unicorn is a blog about submission, kink, power exchange, and sex from the perspective of a bottom. It provides sex toy reviews and a vetted list of resources as well.
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Rebecca Blanton
Oct 31, 20205 min read
Election 2020 and Erotic Power
With the 2020 election just days from now, I have spent an enormous amount of time thinking about power: structural power, institutional...
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Rebecca Blanton
May 4, 20203 min read
Submission and Control
A vast percentage of posts about submission and control (including mine) are about the relationship between a submissive and their...
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Rebecca Blanton
Feb 19, 20206 min read
5 Ways BDSM Will Improve Your Life
Most people think BDSM is just about the sex. It is often reduced to sexual and sexualized acts, especially in mainstream media...
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Rebecca Blanton
Apr 25, 20188 min read
Fetlife Protest Isn’t Just a “Feminist Thing”
For those of you unfamiliar with Fetlife, it is a social media site for kinky folks (kinky defined very broadly). Currently, there is a...
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Rebecca Blanton
Mar 2, 20182 min read
Free the Pussy, Free the World
I have spent nearly 30 years working in political activism. My graduate work in political psychology focused on identity, education and...
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Rebecca Blanton
Feb 2, 20173 min read
Kinky Resistance
Let’s talk about the idea of “religious freedom” and why it is absolutely imperative for all of us to be as queer and kinky as possible....
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Rebecca Blanton
Sep 30, 20165 min read
Why We Should Care About Sex Tapes
This morning Trump released a barrage of tweets speculating that former beauty queen Machado had made a sex tape. Of course, as with most...
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Rebecca Blanton
Aug 28, 20163 min read
Naked, On Display, and Empowered
I get naked in public… a lot. I do burlesque and performance art with a number of groups and much of it involves taking my clothes off....
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Rebecca Blanton
May 16, 20165 min read
Comimg Out
I have had to come out about things a few times in my life. I’m queer. I’m bipolar. I am kinky. None of these things are obvious at first...
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Rebecca Blanton
Mar 1, 20165 min read
Is Submission a Gift?
“Submission is a gift.” I hear that phrase constantly in the kink community. I hear submissives say it. I hear Dom(me)s say it. Switches...
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