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Head Space 101
If you have spent any time on kink blogs, podcasts, or in a class, you have heard people mention “head space.” Head space refers to the...
Rebecca Blanton
Feb 5, 20226 min read
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What Can You Do If You Disagree with Your Dominant?
One of the most difficult issues of being a submissive or other s-type is having a disagreement with your dominant. Power exchange...
Rebecca Blanton
Sep 20, 20213 min read
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BDSM Beyond the Bedroom
If you are new-ish to kink you may be under the impression that power exchange and kink are specifically for sex and intimate play time....
Rebecca Blanton
Aug 18, 20214 min read
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An Introduction to Body Affirming Kink Play
Feeling bad about your body is common. Regardless of your actual weight, height, ability, shape, gender, or age, anyone can feel bad...
Rebecca Blanton
Aug 15, 20213 min read
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What Is a Submissive’s Responsibility?
I love it when I come across people writing about submission in a deep and thoughtful way! If you have not discovered The Pleasure Coach,...
Rebecca Blanton
Apr 28, 202112 min read
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Expanding Your Kink
January 2021 brings both the desire to set goals for the new year and marks ten months in various stages of lockdown for most of us. Many...
Rebecca Blanton
Jan 22, 20213 min read
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Fetlife Protest Isn’t Just a “Feminist Thing”
For those of you unfamiliar with Fetlife, it is a social media site for kinky folks (kinky defined very broadly). Currently, there is a...
Rebecca Blanton
Apr 25, 20188 min read
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R.E.S.P.E.C.T. & Relationships
Power exchange relationships have many similarities to vanilla relationships. Both require kindness, understanding, communication, and...
Rebecca Blanton
Apr 18, 20186 min read
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Switching It Up
A couple of months ago I was performing with Bawdy Storytelling and had the great pleasure of hearing Race Bannon tell a story about the...
Rebecca Blanton
Jan 19, 20186 min read
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S-type Must be Autonomous
I know that seems counter-intuitive to most people. Isn’t the role of an s-type based on giving power, sometimes total power, to a...
Rebecca Blanton
Oct 20, 20165 min read
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