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BDSM Beyond the Bedroom
If you are new-ish to kink you may be under the impression that power exchange and kink are specifically for sex and intimate play time....
Rebecca Blanton
Aug 18, 20214 min read
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Why Mantras Are Important to BDSM
You are probably familiar with mantras. They are short statements or words said repeatedly to help focus you. They are rooted in Buddhism...
Rebecca Blanton
Jun 2, 20214 min read
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Flip It and Reverse It: Protocols for Dominants
I adore having protocols in a relationship. Those rules and rituals power exchange couples create to serve their relationship provide a...
Rebecca Blanton
May 29, 20196 min read
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And What Did Protocol Give You?
I love protocols. I have found safety and security in protocol for years. It helps me get into submissive head space. It can create...
Rebecca Blanton
Nov 21, 20165 min read
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Etiquette: How Not to be a Dick
One of the things I like most about the BDSM/kink community is the presence of rules and structure. These come in basic rules for...
Rebecca Blanton
Nov 15, 20154 min read
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