#protocol

Love letters to a unicorn is a blog about submission, kink, power exchange, and sex from the perspective of a bottom. It provides sex toy reviews and a vetted list of resources as well.

Rebecca Blanton

Aug 18, 20214 min read

BDSM Beyond the Bedroom

If you are new-ish to kink you may be under the impression that power exchange and kink are specifically for sex and intimate play time....

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Rebecca Blanton

Jun 2, 20214 min read

Why Mantras Are Important to BDSM

You are probably familiar with mantras. They are short statements or words said repeatedly to help focus you. They are rooted in Buddhism...

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Flip It and Reverse It: Protocols for Dominants

Rebecca Blanton

May 29, 20196 min read

Flip It and Reverse It: Protocols for Dominants

I adore having protocols in a relationship. Those rules and rituals power exchange couples create to serve their relationship provide a...

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Rebecca Blanton

Nov 21, 20165 min read

And What Did Protocol Give You?

I love protocols. I have found safety and security in protocol for years. It helps me get into submissive head space. It can create...

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Rebecca Blanton

Nov 15, 20154 min read

Etiquette: How Not to be a Dick

One of the things I like most about the BDSM/kink community is the presence of rules and structure. These come in basic rules for...

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