Rebecca BlantonFeb 5, 20226 min readHead Space 101If you have spent any time on kink blogs, podcasts, or in a class, you have heard people mention “head space.” Head space refers to the...
Rebecca BlantonOct 5, 20195 min readPain and PresenceThere are different theories on how people “should” deal with pain. Some folks argue for being present with the pain. Some argue for...
Rebecca BlantonAug 27, 20194 min readSexier Sex? Plan for it!I can remember the first time I read Macho Sluts by Pat Califia. While all the sex was really hot, a few of the stories stood out because...
Rebecca BlantonApr 2, 20195 min read“We Need to Talk”: Ambiguity in Relationships“We need to talk.” Its the sentence many of us live in fear of hearing from our partners. When we get a text or a message or a partner...
Rebecca BlantonJun 4, 20185 min readPlanning a SceneI love planning scenes. Figuring out the details, setting up the situations, and preparing the tools and clothing for a scene has always...