You receive messages about sex and sexuality your entire live. From the media you watch, listen to, and read, to how your parents...

If you are new-ish to kink you may be under the impression that power exchange and kink are specifically for sex and intimate play time....

Photo by Kindel Media on Pexels.com Weed is now legal in 18 U.S. states and the District of Columbia; two countries (Canada and Uruguay)...

Aftercare is a frequently mentioned idea in kink/BDSM classes and touted as “important” for safe, sane, and consensual play. Most of the...

As more of us get vaccinated and back out there, so many of y’all are posting about having a slutty summer. Yay! I strongly encourage...

If you are into role playing, most likely you are familiar with the classics: student/teacher, parent/child, landowner/servant,...

Listen on Spotify Want to stimulate the biggest sex organ for anyone? You need to get their brain aroused! While many of us rely on...

Listen on Spotify One of my favorite scenes from a movie is the therapy scene in the beginning of The Ref. Judy Davis and Kevin Spacey...

January 2021 brings both the desire to set goals for the new year and marks ten months in various stages of lockdown for most of us. Many...

I am a huge fan of lube as a normal part of sex. I have been using it since I discovered it in my teens. It is essential for fisting,...

Its been a hard year. A. Very. Hard. Year. Between COVID lockdowns and restrictions, the election, the United States beginning to recon...

So, you want to try fisting. Or you heard about it. Or you tried it and it didn’t quite work. Well, let me welcome you to the wonderful...

Social distancing has definitely put a cramp in many sex lives. Online dating profiles are now including things like, “I have toilet...

Valentine’s Day in America is basically the National Day for Weird Sex. After the age of 18 most of us feel the social pressure to do...

We all have our limits, be they soft or hard. Not everyone likes spanking. Not everyone enjoys rope. We are all loosely bound by our...

There is the myth that the Inuit have some amazing number of words for snow. They don’t- but we have all heard the myth. The concept is...

I can remember the first time I read Macho Sluts by Pat Califia. While all the sex was really hot, a few of the stories stood out because...

I’m feeling old and crotchety after a month of Pride. Maybe its because I have been doing Pride for more than three decades and it is not...

One of the things I have always loved about BDSM and kink is the value it puts on play. Kinky folks call all the different activities we...

https://www.podbean.com/media/share/pb-nmdui-b0ec4e Hosts: Auntie Vice and CharRon Smith Guests: Kirsten Shultz, Katori Knight, Amber...