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Most folks I meet assume that I have sex all the time so I must not need to masturbate. Truth be told, my partner lives a couple of hours...
Rebecca Blanton
Apr 22, 20197 min read
Want to Improve Your Sex Life? This Tip Works Every Time!
Sorry for the click bait title, but it got you here. Now for some actual substance. I have been talking to a lot of folks over 40 about...
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Rebecca Blanton
Apr 1, 20191 min read
Episode 13: Invisible Disabilities
https://www.podbean.com/media/share/pb-argr5-aca17a Co-Hosts: Erica Ambrin, Auntie Vice Guests: Ali Yada, Amber Whitford Erica Ambrin...
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Rebecca Blanton
Feb 26, 20191 min read
Episode 11: Sex Toys!
https://www.podbean.com/media/share/pb-k2rgx-a92a11 Guests: Paul Imagine (adult toy store owner) and Lindsay Hoppe (sex toy reviewer)...
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Rebecca Blanton
Jan 4, 20197 min read
Loving the Consistently Inconsistent Partner
Dear Readers, I’m back after a long time off. Unfortunately my health battles continue and there is no help from the medical community....
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Rebecca Blanton
Nov 11, 20181 min read
Episode 9: 40!!!
https://www.podbean.com/media/share/pb-gpaia-9ee5de 40!!! Guests: Evie Vane (author, blogger) and Tina Hayes (Belly Dancer/Model) Auntie...
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Rebecca Blanton
May 17, 20186 min read
Top 10 Tips for Loving Someone Loving with Mental Illness
It’s National Mental Health Awareness Month so lets talk about power exchange and mental illness. Depending on the source, between 20 and...
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Rebecca Blanton
Apr 18, 20186 min read
R.E.S.P.E.C.T. & Relationships
Power exchange relationships have many similarities to vanilla relationships. Both require kindness, understanding, communication, and...
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Rebecca Blanton
Jan 19, 20186 min read
Switching It Up
A couple of months ago I was performing with Bawdy Storytelling and had the great pleasure of hearing Race Bannon tell a story about the...
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Rebecca Blanton
Sep 28, 20175 min read
Hef, Playboy, & American Sex
With the passing of Hugh Hefner today, lots of sex writers and educators are reflecting on his influence on their lives and work. It is...
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Rebecca Blanton
Jun 26, 20175 min read
Sex and the Resistance
It is Pride month. This year is particularly politically charged. There are fights about adding black and brown stripes to the Pride...
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Rebecca Blanton
Jan 22, 20174 min read
Sex, Lies, and Videotape
Lately I feel like I am watching one of those suspense or horror films where the protagonist makes a mistake in the beginning (e.g.,...
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Rebecca Blanton
Nov 27, 20165 min read
It Burns When I Pee!!!
Let’s talk STIs. Sexually Transmitted Infections. I know, totally not sexy. I get it. You only want certain types of dripping going on...
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Rebecca Blanton
Aug 17, 20165 min read
Do It For the Children! Media Representation
What is portrayed in the popular media makes a big difference. Not a profound statement, but most people- even those who agree- often...
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Rebecca Blanton
Jun 10, 20167 min read
Consent, 2016 Style
Consent is one of these topics that comes up all the time in the kink community. It will come up in the wider world after a horrific rape...
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Rebecca Blanton
May 6, 20165 min read
Measuring Up: Part Two
I was invited to roast a friend’s husband for his birthday last night. She started the show by mentioning they had just finished a 27 day...
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Rebecca Blanton
Apr 30, 20163 min read
Sex Facts: Measuring Up
People have a ton of questions about how they match up against others in bed. Most of us are confident with one skill and question our...
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Rebecca Blanton
Apr 26, 20163 min read
Is This Weird???
Simple answer… yes, yes it is. Regardless of what you do, it is weird to someone. One the the most shocking things I do or say is that I...
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Rebecca Blanton
Apr 25, 20163 min read
Am I Doing this Right????
Its the most common question I see of new kinksters, “Am I doing this right?” It comes in several versions, “I think I am a Domme, but I...
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Rebecca Blanton
Apr 3, 20165 min read
On Virtue and Vice
8? 25? 105? 300? 1,023? Is there such a thing as having too many sexual partners? Are you a sex addict? Is sex your vice? Is sex a...
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