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I am a fan of sexual and intimacy goal setting. It is a way to prioritize your pleasure and not let it languish as life happens. It also...

In the world of BDMS, power exchange, and kinky shenanigans, people who identify as having a 24/7 dynamic are often seen as the “ideal”...

BDSM and power exchange is often portrayed as something which exists as something in the bedroom. Yes, a large part of people’s dynamics...

I work with a lot of kinky folks of all identities and levels of experience. When I talk to folks from the left side of the slash, they...

When you are submissive or enjoy being submissive with a partner, navigating your own desires can be tricky. As submissives, we sometime...

When I am on my knees, looking up at my Dom, waiting on his command, I am in complete bliss. There is something wonderful and liberating...

If you have spent any time on kink blogs, podcasts, or in a class, you have heard people mention “head space.” Head space refers to the...

Nothing puts a damper of getting down and dirty as visiting the parents for the holidays! With mom, dad, the kids, grandparents, or other...

Sponsored Post from HotCherry.com Of all sex practices, BDSM might just be the most misunderstood. Many people associate it with...

Dating while kinky can be fun. It can also be immensely frustrating! Finding and connecting with a partner who matches you on desire,...

One of the most difficult issues of being a submissive or other s-type is having a disagreement with your dominant. Power exchange...

You receive messages about sex and sexuality your entire live. From the media you watch, listen to, and read, to how your parents...

If you are new-ish to kink you may be under the impression that power exchange and kink are specifically for sex and intimate play time....

Listen on Spotify Finding out your partner has cheated on you is often devastating. Regardless of your relationship style (monogamous,...

I love it when I come across people writing about submission in a deep and thoughtful way! If you have not discovered The Pleasure Coach,...

Valentine’s Day is rapidly approaching (again). Even if you are jaded toward this corporate day of forced romance and sex, you can still...

January 2021 brings both the desire to set goals for the new year and marks ten months in various stages of lockdown for most of us. Many...

Many of us identify as “service submissives.” We enjoy serving others (at least we enjoy serving a D-type). Some of us (including me)...

I’ve been asked by several folx to provide a set of good readings on D/s dynamics. While this is far from a complete list, here is a good...