Rebecca BlantonSep 12, 20164 min readOn CertaintyAt some point in the last decade culture in the United States started demanding that people be certain about everything. We collectively...
Rebecca BlantonJul 19, 20163 min readThe Need to ServeService is quintessential to much of submission. Submissives of many ilks incorporate some form of service into their submission. We...
Rebecca BlantonJul 6, 20164 min readSubmission and Mental IllnessMy first serious girlfriend told me I was not worth the risk to marry because I had Bipolar. She knew this when we got together. Still,...
Rebecca BlantonJun 10, 20167 min readConsent, 2016 StyleConsent is one of these topics that comes up all the time in the kink community. It will come up in the wider world after a horrific rape...
Rebecca BlantonMay 6, 20165 min readMeasuring Up: Part TwoI was invited to roast a friend’s husband for his birthday last night. She started the show by mentioning they had just finished a 27 day...
Rebecca BlantonNov 4, 20156 min readOpen Letter to DominantsDear Doms and Dommes: Thank you. Thank you for enjoying your role on the left of the slash. Without you, my life would not be nearly as...
Rebecca BlantonOct 29, 20157 min readThe ‘Woo’ of KinkMy last post about sub space got a flood of responses. Most of the 3,000+ people who replied here and on Fetlife were very complimentary....
Rebecca BlantonOct 25, 20156 min readWhat Everyone Needs to Know About Sub SpaceImage from www.korucorner.co.nz All rights reserved. When I was an undergrad, I took a course on altered states of consciousness. The...
Rebecca BlantonMay 16, 20157 min readFeminism, Bad Feminism, Choice, and SubmissionI am a feminist. I am a submissive. This is my choice. There is no conflict between the two for me. However, my submission is not an act...
Rebecca BlantonApr 29, 20157 min readMyths About SubmissionI want to talk about perceptions versus reality of submission. There are a lot of misconceptions for both vanilla folks and newbie...