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Love letters to a unicorn is a blog about submission, kink, power exchange, and sex from the perspective of a bottom. It provides sex toy reviews and a vetted list of resources as well.

Things Are Terrifying! How Do I Keep Going?

Rebecca Blanton

Jul 11, 20225 min read

Things Are Terrifying! How Do I Keep Going?

I was lucky enough to get to interview Mir Green from Wicked Grounds today and it helped me refine a few thoughts I have been playing...

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Rebecca Blanton

Apr 22, 20224 min read

7 Ways to Expand Your Dynamic

BDSM and power exchange is often portrayed as something which exists as something in the bedroom. Yes, a large part of people’s dynamics...

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Rebecca Blanton

Mar 15, 20223 min read

Should Submissives Express THEIR Needs?

When you are submissive or enjoy being submissive with a partner, navigating your own desires can be tricky. As submissives, we sometime...

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How To Communicate When You Hate Long Talks

Rebecca Blanton

Jan 24, 20224 min read

How To Communicate When You Hate Long Talks

Communication is key. You have heard it hundreds, if not thousands of time when it comes to creating successful relationships and...

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Rebecca Blanton

Jan 12, 20224 min read

Dating in an On-going Pandemic

Being single, or at least being in a position to date, during the pandemic is challenging. We all crave human touch and interaction. We...

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Rebecca Blanton

Dec 13, 20215 min read

Which Wand is Right for You

There are many different types and styles of wand vibrators available. How do you know which one works for you? Your Auntie is here to...

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Rebecca Blanton

Nov 29, 20213 min read

Which Nipple Clips are Right for You?

There are many styles of nipple clips out there? How do you find the one’s which are right for you? Nipples are erogenous zones for all...

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Home For the Holidays? Ways to stay kinky while visiting relatives

Rebecca Blanton

Nov 1, 20213 min read

Home For the Holidays? Ways to stay kinky while visiting relatives

Nothing puts a damper of getting down and dirty as visiting the parents for the holidays! With mom, dad, the kids, grandparents, or other...

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4 Unexepected ways Audio Porn is Better Than Sex

Rebecca Blanton

Oct 7, 20215 min read

4 Unexepected ways Audio Porn is Better Than Sex

By April Sutphen Sponsored Post Some people might argue that there’s no better feeling in the world than having sex, when in actuality,...

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What Can You Do If You Disagree with Your Dominant?

Rebecca Blanton

Sep 20, 20213 min read

What Can You Do If You Disagree with Your Dominant?

One of the most difficult issues of being a submissive or other s-type is having a disagreement with your dominant. Power exchange...

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5 Common Beliefs Which Undermine Your Sex Life

Rebecca Blanton

Sep 12, 20214 min read

5 Common Beliefs Which Undermine Your Sex Life

You receive messages about sex and sexuality your entire live. From the media you watch, listen to, and read, to how your parents...

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Rebecca Blanton

Aug 18, 20214 min read

BDSM Beyond the Bedroom

If you are new-ish to kink you may be under the impression that power exchange and kink are specifically for sex and intimate play time....

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Rebecca Blanton

Aug 2, 20215 min read

7 Tips When You Are New to Kink

Whether you personally are new to kink, or you are dating someone new to kink, it is an exciting time filled with fun and learning! It...

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Rebecca Blanton

Jul 16, 20217 min read

How Do You Create an Aftercare Plan?

Aftercare is a frequently mentioned idea in kink/BDSM classes and touted as “important” for safe, sane, and consensual play. Most of the...

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Rebecca Blanton

Jun 22, 20217 min read

7 Tips for Hosting an Orgy

As more of us get vaccinated and back out there, so many of y’all are posting about having a slutty summer. Yay! I strongly encourage...

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Rebecca Blanton

May 25, 20215 min read

Do This BEFORE a Partner Cheats

Listen on Spotify Finding out your partner has cheated on you is often devastating. Regardless of your relationship style (monogamous,...

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Rebecca Blanton

May 13, 20216 min read

Sex Toy Buying Guide

Sex toys are prolific! They range from the cheap to the ridiculously expensive. From reputable brands to knock-offs to independent...

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Rebecca Blanton

Apr 28, 202112 min read

What Is a Submissive’s Responsibility?

I love it when I come across people writing about submission in a deep and thoughtful way! If you have not discovered The Pleasure Coach,...

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6 Tips on Making Your Kink Venue/Event Emotionally/Socially Accessible (Part 2)

Rebecca Blanton

Mar 11, 20215 min read

6 Tips on Making Your Kink Venue/Event Emotionally/Socially Accessible (Part 2)

Physical accessibility is only part of the picture when it comes to making spaces and events accessible. That is often the easy part! If...

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Rebecca Blanton

Mar 8, 20216 min read

9 Tips To Make Your Kink Venue More Accessible (Part 1)

I miss going to dungeons and play parties! I can’t wait for the world to finally be able to safely reopen. That said, I don’t want things...

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