Rebecca BlantonAug 2, 20215 min read7 Tips When You Are New to KinkWhether you personally are new to kink, or you are dating someone new to kink, it is an exciting time filled with fun and learning! It...
Rebecca BlantonJun 22, 20217 min read7 Tips for Hosting an OrgyAs more of us get vaccinated and back out there, so many of y’all are posting about having a slutty summer. Yay! I strongly encourage...
Rebecca BlantonApr 9, 20214 min readNeed a Little Sexy Inspiration? Try This!One think a lot of people new to kink and BDSM find surprising is that even with the most experienced kinky folks, we can get a bit bored...
Rebecca BlantonMar 11, 20215 min read6 Tips on Making Your Kink Venue/Event Emotionally/Socially Accessible (Part 2)Physical accessibility is only part of the picture when it comes to making spaces and events accessible. That is often the easy part! If...
Rebecca BlantonMar 8, 20216 min read9 Tips To Make Your Kink Venue More Accessible (Part 1)I miss going to dungeons and play parties! I can’t wait for the world to finally be able to safely reopen. That said, I don’t want things...
Rebecca BlantonApr 16, 20209 min readWhen “D” in BDSM Stands for DissimilarHot take: A majority of folks you date will have dissimilar sexual needs and tastes than you do. Most couples I have met over my 40+...
Rebecca BlantonOct 5, 20195 min readPain and PresenceThere are different theories on how people “should” deal with pain. Some folks argue for being present with the pain. Some argue for...